>> reporter: on the morning of the shooting, amy stopped by her coach's office to thank him for helping her get a scholarship to play basketball in college. >> got to, like, give coach sanders a big hug and high-five and said, see you later, coach. >> reporter: three hours later coach sanders told amy and other students to run. they lived, and he died. >> do you look at this much? >> no. >> reporter: struggling with grief amy turned down her basketball scholarship. she married and started a family. dropping her kids off at school sometimes caused panic attacks. >> i'm deathly terrified to lose my children. that's something that i struggle with on a daily basis. >> reporter: amy's oldest child, brie, says her mother's experience at columbine have made her and her siblings more aware of the fragility of life. >> the way i think about it is, like, it happened to my mom, so why can't it happen to me? not every day is guaranteed. >> reporter: amy now shares her story with survivors of other