interested, engaging, smiling. >> it was the late 19 eighties, tonia was a young nurse anesthetist in dayton, ohio. john was in law school there. until he met her, that is, and said he had a kind of epiphany. >> he said, you know, i'm not sure i will be happy being an attorney. i think i want to be a nurse anesthetist. and i think my jaw fell to the ground. because i thought he was second year law student. >> in fact, he wasn't, he had been kicked out. though he didn't tell her that. so, in her blissful ignorance, she married him. in her family's church, in 1990. >> mr. and mrs. john meehan. >> and she helped put him through nursing school. they had two daughters. before things stopped adding up. >> i found out he was having an affair. >> tonia wondered what else did she not know about her soon to be ex-husband? like, why did he refused to