stunning twist led detectives in a direction that was hard to believe, even for connie herself. here is josh mankiewicz with "deadly intent. " >> you're looking at the life of the hoagland family of san diego, played out in brief moments, stretching across the years from the prosaic to the profound. that's the mom, connie. just after she gave birth to son, jonathan. >> look over here, guys, one, two, three. good one. >> here he is, six years later, after losing a tooth. >> hey, jonathan, that's a great smile you have there. >> this is oldest daughter, jill, learning to play golf. >> that's a nice one, jill. >> and this is her little sister, jaclyn. today, the kids are grown. when we met them, jill has a child of her own. jaclyn is married and jonathan