>> no. i can't go around talking or acting with hate in my heart. because if i do that, that my children, they're going to be thinking it's all right for them to do it >> rick was gratified that he can make good on his promise to america's grandmother but he also got something back from her. >> i do a lot from judy strength. she told me from the get-go that things would work out. and that's a sign of her fate. >> out of the tragedy, the harper family had pulled together. with her grandparents as her guiding life, erica's future looked bright. when i caught up with her, she was a playful six-ye...