That was otherwise idyllic. i guess we all have our thing. everybody has their thing. and you said you were an emotional person, you take things in and very personally. it had to be really hard. well especially with two children i thought i was going to die. to hurt them i felt like i was going to just collapse and i didn t know how to protect them and perhaps i didn t always do it right. i said nothing s going to change in your life but things do change and it was difficult. it hurt. you know. you questionuh yourself. so you married dr. bradley.d one of the doctors that operated on my dad and met him in the hospital and who would have dreamed, you know? so why do you think this one worked? we share the same values.