mother. >> and fought if you play baseball. >> well, yeah. right, so men should not necessarily because their value is in their income, but also, we know poor, single mothers, when they're stay-at-home moms we call them welfare queens sitting at home and not working. we value middle class women who are married to wealthy men being able to stay home, but if a poor woman stays home, she's a welfare queen. >> i was one of those moms who was on welfare, raised my kids with food stamps, medicaid, the whole lot. when i did go wack to work, i worked as a cullant and from home and we lived across the street from the elementary school, and i could walk across the street and read to my kids during the day. my family said i was a slacker, but what i was doing was investing that time in my children because it wasgist me, no dad at home, so they needed the extra face time with a parent every day. >> we have an amazic statistic about where america ranks in this basic think of paid maternity leave. i'm not getting fancy with you,