reporter for the washington post who is out tonight with that report ognjen kelly. and eli stoekels. peter, let's begin with you. least of all, this widow and her family in florida. no one needed this added post script to this nasty day where politics has somehow become intertwined with gold star families in our country. >> well, that's right, i would caution our viewers, we weren weren't -- we didn't hear what he said, the tone with which he said it. the congresswoman gave a compelling account as you played on cnn. we don't know exactly how the widow took it, it's a very -- it's an unfortunate thing to say, because it is open to misinterpretation at the very least. i think the one thing that president's learn, in these moments of grief, in these