lot of state governments still strongly oppose. >> i think there is. i had an interesting conversation with now retired senator joe lieberman's press secretary who said, i never got as much love from the media as when we were working on don't ask, don't tell. i never got a hard question. i never got a press on an answer that i got because i think there is this sense and i think because of the demographics and because they tend to come from big cities in america, they tend to be socially more liberal. that said, i don't think that they have mocked, i don't think i haven't seen rudeness or abru abruptness. perhaps a lack of nuance and understanding, if you will, in the beliefs of the other side. that said, last sunday, i believe it was, before or two sundays ago, you know, very balanced debates on the morning television shows. there wasn't, you know, a pro-gay marriage and another pro-gay marriage. there were people on both sides. >> another thing that has changed. you know this several