where you can come and just say, listen, i'm struggling with this, or, you know, i'm confused about that, or, you know -- these are the kinds of precious pressures i'm dealing with and have somebody who is either their peer or somebody older who can say yeah, man, that's something that i went through also, you know. i'm struggling with this too. this is something i'm confused about. and then being able to talk it through. >> president obama says he found his purpose and ambition in life through community service, and eventually a career in politics. becoming a father to daughters sasha and malia gave him the chance to be the kind of father he never had. james and lazarus are now fathers as well. >> we were talking before, the three of you guys were in the program, you were in the school, now you guys have moved on. two of you are now fathers. >> yes, sir. >> and both of you have daughters.