have chosen to do, but, you know, everybody's got their own style or different approaches. but, again, i don't want to have anyone infer that there's evidence in this case that it caused or was a contributing factor. we don't know that. >> palin's boss at fox, former reagan aide, roger ailes telling her and the rest of her network to tone it down. "if governor palin doesn't want to be criticized, she should continue her commentary, but dial down the anger." the republican strategist todd harris telling "the washington post," "i think that palin is missing an opportunity to show that she can be a leader at a higher level than she's been viewed before." ariy fleischer saying, "what the nation wants more than anything else is for people to rise above the nonsense and politics and be gracious. that's nothing like letting people see your heart -- or there's nothing like letting people see your heart, your emotion. facebook and twitter don't convey emotion." and while some democrats,