those returning home from iraq. >> take your time get reconnected with your family. don't expect for your family to be the way it was. you have to give it time. >> how has two tours in iraq changed the father of two young sons? >> the things you get uptight about it was not a big deal. i was happy to be alive. if i was happy to be in one place. every day is a good day. i can't complain. >> like 2006 mustafa abdullah worked three years as a military interpreter. >> at that time my family starts receiving serious threats. i was terrified. >> major chris phelps an officer of the 5th civil affairs group steps up to help. >> being a great guy a great marine he tried everything within his man power to bring me to the united states.