feed because as a survivor i can't see people say those particular things to me. the impact that it has on me over the course of a day, a week, a month. i just don't know how to explain like how tangible that reality is. >> absolutely. i think it's a constant for many women who dare to have opinions and then exist in the world. and on the internet there's just something that makes people feel incredibly free to say the most horrifying things. and to try and describe the most horrific kinds of violence a woman can face. it's incredibly frustrating because all we're doing is having opinions. but somehow we're not allowed to do that and these men that perpetrate these crimes feel no compunction compunction whatsoever about going to that place where they feel we're the most vulnerable. and it's constant. i think conversation is one part of it but i think we need to have consequences and i think we need to start having more fraternities being banned and