those bitter divorce cases according to the deposition and other asects of the proceedings. even in some of the most bitter divorce cases you have handled, i imagine over time the litigants once unmarried and coparenting over decades, as they have done at some point, many of these bitternesses are let go. people just let by gones be buyy gns and feel differently over time. >> it goes to one of two extremes. when they are 80 years old they still hate each other and act inappropriately. we have seen tv stories and movies about that. and then others who, you know, sort of grow up in a different way and work through it and that was the past. for bitter divorces you hope it least evolved in to something more appropriate. kudos to them if they have a