marriage. because i thought they were very thought provoking and pretty on point. let's listen. >> everyone knows marriage is the biggest personal decision you make. but it's the biggest career decision you make if you're going to have a life partner who that partner is going to be. >> that just puts more pressure on women. >> puts more pressure on women if they marry or partner with someone to partner with the right person because you cannot have a full career and a full life at home with your children if you are also doing all of the house work and child care. >> and of course that is absolutely true. but again, critics attacked her for that, too, saying she must have help at home, her husband is also in a powerful position and makes quite a bit of money. why not bring up those things, too. why not be fully transparent if you're going to offer advice in this way. >> well, when you read the book, sheryl is fully transparent. when you know her as a friend, she's always wrestling with the complications of running work and running a household with two