he doesn't have any problem with anybody. you don't hear talking about those mad men like those crazy terrorists. he never talk about those kind of people. >> reporter: did the marriage change him? >> i suspect there is something wrong. >> reporter: farouk's co-worker, christian wadiqi tells cbs news that he is certain the marriage changed farouk? >> do you believe he was radicalized? >> yes, by the wife. i think he married a terrorist. >> reporter: most puzzling, says friends, farouk would be a good father and would have wanted to live a life with the family. >> i don't understand. how can a woman just leave her baby like this and go do some crap like this. >> let's talk more about this. joining me now from new milford, cnn contributor, casey jordan, a