about his son who served, and that is not even remotely the same thing. your son -- it's still tragic and he died of cancer and it is sad but it is not even close to the same situation. and there was, again, no mention of reilly, no i'm sorry for your loss, it was my son died, too. and, you know, he tapped her on the leg and she pulled away twice and he got up and went and talked to another family. a lot of the other families that he talked to, he spoke with a lot longer but only because they carried on the conversation to really share their thoughts with him. otherwise i am pretty sure it probably would have been a two-minute conversation to each family most about his son and it was locked out. it was more about him. >> sean: don't ever apologize, please. the media says, oh, you have to -- never. because that was real. that was raw. and i get it. and i applaud you for your