students, you tend to notice people at the same high level. you do notice after a while who they are. >> the two became fast friends, surfing, pickup basketball, poker, guy things. and then jason and julie started a family. jake first and then jackie. j names. >> even if it meant not playing cards with the boys or going on a surf trip the kids always came first. >> home was here in the terraces at sunny creek. these were their neighbors. >> so many neighborhoods now you don't know your next door neighbors. >> julie would organize all of the activities. a good mom. really involved with her kids. >> hard to know why things changed. after joshua, their third was