no doubt many of those differences remain. i urge all americans who supported me, to join me in not just congratulating him, but offering our next president our good will and earnest effort to find ways to come together. >> what was it like for him to lose on a personal level? because he obviously publicly handled it with such grace but that's not easy for people. there are -- there are folks who have come close to winning the presidency who we still see years later are struggling with it psych lodge logically, i'm not diminishing it or demeaning it, it can't be an easy thing to lose like that. what was it like for him? >> that was another remarkable attribute of john. you know, he used to tell the joke which he did repeatedly in his senate campaigns afterwards that he accepted the loss very