how his mother was treated. >> family denies that saying the woman is a member of the staff but the woman always identified herself as bernice's daughter in law. >> this doesn't appear to be anything but consensual. >> bernice's dignity was destroyed when this disgraceful event occurred. rsh r. >> reporter: the family's attorney turned over more legal papers, quickly tempers flared. >> you submitted a bogus power of attorney. you have to answer. >> this is not the place to do this stuff. >> not so says mary ann. her mother lives here. she says the event brought out the best in the residents and it was done tastefully. >> they were excited. the ones who were depressed, were happy and smiling. they had a good time. >> in fact, 16 residents who make up a planning council here at the home voted unanimous by to bring the stripper in as part of an activity program. in west babylon, on long island, kristin thorn, channel 7, eyewitness news.