>> eventually by 2006, the two adults called a cease-fire long enough to hammer out a joint custody agreement, a 50/50 split in parenting. paul, meanwhile, seemed to be getting his groove back. he had managed to work his way from the drugstore counter back into his old environment as a pharmaceutical executive with medco. he also had a girlfriend, a serious new woman in his life who was going to move in with him in the nice but all-too-lonely house in ramsey, new jersey. while paul was talking marriage, the former mrs. duncsak's life was in free fall. money trouble. she hasn't found work after the divorce. she had been sickly with various complaints and now had fallen behind on bank payments for her home. john duncsak says the way his brother saw it, stacey had only one option, to move in with her parents, ed and dottie ates down in florida, but the child custody arrangement wouldn't allow that. >> every time that stacey had