opposite. he said we are fine. it's not them, it's the other people we have to think about. that idea of thinking about others would become a key theme of his life. but to him it was about those it was entertaining, something he first did one new year's eve. we had big part in house and it's a small house, it was a tenant. two bedrooms, my three sisters slept in one, my mum and dad in the other and my brother and i slept in the alcove in the kitchen. they would wake me at one o'clock and literally packed full of people. my dad was very popular. and very loved. that's how you use to entertain one another. and then introduce me. and i would be my pyjamas, aged three and do aljolson