the father in atlanta is apparently claiming the same thing. in your research, how common is that? >> basically, this has been extensively looked at by neuroscientists and what seems to be the case in almost all of these cases is that this turns out to be a failure of memory, not of love, not of bad parenting. it's something that happens under a certain set of circumstances. they tend to be the same. lynn's case was very much like this. there is stress involved. there is a change in routine. you're not doing things the way you usually do. and it creates this horrifying hiccup of memory. >> and you wrote about, i believe it was a father who the alarm in the car went off three times when he was at work, and he just from his desk turned it off, correct? >> absolutely. he had had -- he was so distanced from the notion that