That and so it's important for me to speak up on the matter. because it's it shouldn't be yeah. that thing what it is and it's notable to hear you say that you think that you're worried about it being swept under the rug and that the school the school is not being entirely forthcoming. >> and cobalt for as i was just hearing your story today, i was just struck by it because one, you're a teenager, you're just going to the bathroom at school and i think for for as much as people talk about who should be using what bathroom. and this discussion, this is something that you actually deal with in your daily life. >> i wonder what that's how you would describe that to people who talk about it and have no idea what it's actually like for you who lives it what would you say it's like? well, as somebody who identifies as non-binary, using the restroom is always been a bit of an issue for me. i try