i think it just haunted him that he felt like he could have done something. >> and by the time a representative at the montana's attorney general's office met with the family, many felt they were teetering on the edge of sanity, still wondering, marty or ted? what was the holdup? >> that day i asked if she could tell us as a family that ted was no longer a suspect because the two little girls were living with ted and marya and shay were living with me, and i felt like i was the only person trying to salvage the relationship with the little girls and their siblings, and i wanted her to crash that wall down and say he was no longer a suspect, and then her response was the case is still moving forward and he's still a suspect. >> quite a thing to hear.