and: everything else that's plaguing our society. that's where it starts is the family.>> let's be clear. you can have a stable family unit with a single-parent household, right? but if you are that single parent, you got to communicate with your kids. i think that's part of what we've been seeing with some of the school shootings. the parents will come out several days later and said i had no idea what child had these issues. i had no idea my child had these horrible thoughts about shooting up their school. it got to commit it with your kids. create an environment where there is a back-and-forth where children feel like they can go to their parents if there are issues and concerns. i can take the form of a parent household or ideally, with both parents. >> that's a really good point. we tend to celebrate single-parent households because of the odds. and we should. however that's not the norm. that's not the goal. >>steve: is becoming the norm, it really is. >> we know people are dealt bad deals in life.