but east neck says the woman has always identified herself as bernice's daughter in law. >> this doesn't appear to be anything but consensual. >> bernice's dignity was destroyed when this disgraceful event occurred. >> reporter: the family's attorney, john ray, handed over more legal papers and quickly tempers flared >> you submitted a bogus power of attorney. you have to answer. >> this is not the place to do this stuff. >> not exactly says mary ann russo whose mother lives here. she says the event brought out the best in the residents and it was done tastefully. >> they were excited. the ones who were depressed, were happy and smiling. they had a good time. >> in fact, those with east neck, 16 residents who make up a planning council here at the home voted unanimous by to bring the stripper in as part of an activity program. in west babylon, on long island, kristin thorn, channel 7, eyewitness news. >> probably not the best idea.