the same feelings. because it would probably be easy in your position to hate the people responsible for that attack. and i talked with my children about that as well. you know, we have friends in the american muslim community. we know that this is not a problem that is everyone in the community. it's a few extremists, certainly not something to dismiss, but we have to work together. we have to embrace our neighbors. and we have to treat one another with love and compassion and not hate. hate doesn't solve anything. >> you've got two daughters, 11 and 14 years old. they've lost their father. how are they doing? and how do you get through this? >> they're doing as well as can be expected. i'm very proud of them. we talk a lot about everything. we talk about the reactions. we have tried very hard to keep