life. so, you know, we can only take some solace in the fact she had a wonderful life. she was extremely happy. she loved this guy with all her heart. that's the toughest thing for me. everybody that she touched loved her and she loved everybody back. you know, i'm not going to let this issue drop. this is, you know, we have to do something about crazy people getting guns. >> this is so hard to watch him struggle to get through that. the gunman's family in northern california seeking privacy this morning and seeking condolences. she calls the shooting quote a shock to everyone. >> it is with heavy hearts and deep sadness we express our deepest condolences to the