jonathan martin bullying scandal. joe philbin was back in front of the microphones yesterday and want to talk about the opponent monday night on tampa bay, nothing else. >> any comments we make at this time would be a disservice of the process about to take place. >> reporter: in the locker room most players had had enough of it too. >> when the media comes in here and ask questions. >> reporter: when asked people outside of the football world don't get it. >> sounds familiar. >> reporter: okay, we get that. players who would talk were still trying to make sense of it all. >> it gets to the point where you can't differentiate between what is fact and what is opinions. >> reporter: what has been most puzzling is the relationship between incognito and martin that has begun to emerge. can we really believe they were best friends as some have said? two men from very different background and experience. martin a stanford grad who talked of attending harvard law. a quiet guy by all accounts and incognito, perhaps the polar