i'm saying to be clear on her position, i mean, it doesn't seem really to me to be all that different from what barack obama's position was in 2008. >> which he's moved away from and so has the rest of the country. i think that what you hear in that painful facebook post is the anguish of a sister feeling completely disrespected by her own family member. it's tough enough to be lesbian and gay and trying to raise a family. to have your own family member diss you publicly, it must be horrible. i just wish that the right wing of the republican party would let its candidates out of this prison of having to be so mean-spirited toward a fellow american. we believe in equal rights in this country. the problem in america is not that too many people want to get married. that's not the problem. >> you have done some work for the enzi campaign, who liz cheney is running against, the republican senator, the incumbent. i'm not going to ask you about the specific issue or the specific debate. but republican support for same sex marriage is a mirror reflection of what it is