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captions paid for by nbc-universal television and welcome to today on this thursday morning, i m meredith vieira. and i m matt lauer. it s been an interesting 48 hours for shirley sherrod. she s accepted apologies from the white house, and the secretary of agriculture. but, is she ready to take a new job within the same administration that demanded her resignation just three days ago? it is a decision that she is mulling over this morning after agriculture secretary tom vilsack admitted he should have done a better job of investigating the video that started the controversy. so is she ready to put it all behind her? does the president himself owe her a personal apology? well, she s sitting right over there. i m going to talk with shirley sherrod right ahead. also a storm brewing in the caribbean has brought efforts to permanently plug the busted oil well in the gulf to a near standstill. we re going to get the latest on that story and a rare view of the disaster as crews use a submarine to search for oil beneath the surface. we re going to take you live to the gulf in just a couple of minutes. and plus-sized and proud. the model who is furious that recent pictures of her were altered to make her appear thinner than she actually is. but we begin on this thursday morning with the fallout over the premature firing of an agriculture department official named shirley sherrod. we ll talk to her in a moment. but first, nbc s savannah guthrie is at the white house with the latest on the story. savannah, good morning to you. reporter: good morning, matt. well the white house is hoping to move past this chapter, now that the agriculture secretary has come forward to offer miss sherrod a new job with the agency, and to apologize. under fire for the firing of a usda worker, agriculture secretary tom vilsack faced the cameras. this is a good woman. she s been put through hell. and i could have done and should have done a better job. reporter: vilsack said he personally called sherrod to apologize. i asked for shirley s forgiveness and she was gracious enough to extend it to me. and for that i am thankful. reporter: at the white house wednesday, it was also all apologies. i think without a doubt miss sherrod is owed an apology. a disservice was done for which we apologize. and on behalf of the administration, i offer our apologies. reporter: after initially standing by the agriculture secretary s decision to fire sherrod, the white house now acknowledges it was a rush to judgment. a usda official called sherrod monday afternoon, in her car, asked her to pull over and resign by blackberry. this, after video surfaced online of sherrod making racially charged comments that turned out to be selectively edited. how did we not ask the right questions? how did you all not ask the right questions? how did other people not ask the right questions? reporter: watching the apologies as they were issued, live on cable tv, shirley sherrod herself later reacted. i m just wondering how will my grandchildren look at this when they read about this in later years, and their grandmother being the first black person to be state director of rural development in georgia, was asked to resign by the first black president. reporter: as for andrew breitbart, the conservative blogger who posted the video, he acknowledged he put it online without seeing the full content of the remarks. but he didn t apologize for posting it. though he did say he has sympathy for sherrod. i feel bad that they made this about her and i feel sorry that they made this about her. i m not sure if that was done because they rushed to judgment, or whether they wanted to make it about shirley versus me. because that s what it s become. well, there s one issue outstanding. senior aides here at the white house insist they did not push the agriculture secretary to fire ms. sherrod, that it was a decision made at agriculture and they were, frankly, looped in essentially after it had been done. on the other hand, miss sherrod has said repeatedly it was her impression, based on her conversation with an agriculture department official, that it was the white house who wanted her to resign. so that s one of those issues of fact that a lot of people will be talking about today, meredith. all right, savannah guthrie, thank you very much. shirley sherrod is with us again this morning. ms. sherrod, thank you so much for joining us. thank you. you have now received apologies from the usda, the white house and the naacp for their rush to judgment. you ve accepted those apologies. you really are a woman, as the secretary put it, who has been through hell. how are you feeling right now? you know, i ve gone from being at such a low on monday, as this was unfolding, and thinking, this is so unreal, to feeling so great about the support i ve received from around the country. it s encouraging. it makes me feel that there are many others out there who think like i do, and so many who do not think like the individual who started this in the first place. let s talk about that. i want to talk about it in a minute. but first of all, do you think that you deserve a phone call from president obama? i think i do. you do? mm-hmm. an apology? well, you know, he is the president of the united states of america. i received the apologies that are important. i really would not want the president to apologize to me. i d love to have a conversation with him, though. and what would you say to him? you know, i d like to talk to him a little bit about the experience of people like me. people at the grassroots level. people who live out there in rural america, people who live in the south. i know he does not have that kind of experience. let me help him a little bit with how we think, how we live, and the things that are happening. what do you think he doesn t understand and a lot of the rest of the country doesn t understand about people like you and the way you live and what you re faced with? you know, we are people who struggle every day, who do the best we can in our community. who love this country. we love him. we want him to be successful, because we feel thinks, in some ways, like we do. and we think that s good for the country. yes, there are issues out there that we are faced with. issues of poverty. issues that i worked so hard on these last 11 months at rural development to try to really have an impact on, mainly because that s me. but the other thing, i want everything to reflect, i want a good reflection for him as the first black president. but why do you think when it comes to this topic of race, it just presses people s buttons? people are so quick to react without thinking. you re in the center of a storm here. why do you think that is? you know, this has gone on for years and years, and i thought we were getting to a place where we really could talk about it. but we can t deal with it until we can face each other. that s the whole point i make when i talk. the things that are being done by the gentleman who started this, and i can t even think of his name andrew breitbart. yes. i didn t know of him before this happened. but the things he s doing, being done more to divide us so we can t move on. but i guess his point was that this is not him versus you. he was trying to point out racism within the membership of the naacp. that when you told that story about being reluctant to help a white farmer, before he realized this was about poverty, that there was acceptance within the crowd, people who are yeah, you re right, what he was trying to say was there s racism in the naacp, the same way they claim there might be racism within the tea party. is there room for debate, for discussion about that? you know, there s always room for debate and discussion. because that s what will get us to a point where we can tolerate each other. people were not laughing in that audience. and he knew that his actions would take shirley sherrod down. he didn t mind doing that. he thought, i think, he probably hoped, it would also deal with the naacp. but what he did was getting me. and that, i cannot well, he s never offered to apologize for what he s done. but that, you know, it would be hard for me to forgive him at this point. but at some point the white house could have checked and seen the whole video, the usda could have seen the whole video, the naacp could have seen the whole video before going on the attack with you. the white house has said they had nothing to do with your ouster. you have said that you had three phone calls on monday from your superiors saying that the white house was behind it, they wanted you to resign. do you stand by that? i stand by that. because i asked what has happened? you know, i just couldn t it was so you know, the first call i received said we re putting you on administrative leave. i had to explain to my leadership staff that we were quite a ways from the office, in a meeting, that i explained what happened, and i told them, i have to leave and go turn this government car in and get my car and go home. you know, i asked so first they were putting me on administrative leave. the next call was shirley, we re going to have to ask you to resign. and then the white house wants you to resign. because i m asking them, what happened? this is just so unbelievable. it was one thing for them to put me an administrative leave and then look into it. but they went from administrative leave directly into asking me to resign. so obviously you still feel the white house has some explaining to do. meanwhile the usda, the secretary of agriculture has offered you a new job that you re thinking about. what can you tell us about this job? you know, it s it s discrimination happens in the usda. that s why there are lawsuits by black farmers, hispanic farmers, native american farmers, women farmers. and they re because the agency that never deals with the people who call it. no one lost their job because they re discriminated against a black farmer or a native american farmer or a hispanic farmer or a female farmer. those individuals, many of them, some have retired, but many of them are still there. i would not want to be that individual that the department and everyone is looking to to solve the issue of racism in usda. it takes a lot more to get that job done. so i m just asking very quickly, what is the job exactly that they d like you to do? they talked about the office about me dealing with discrimination within the agency. and you re inclined to say no to that? at this moment, i would think i would be. so as far as you re concerned at this point you re out of the usda for good? yeah. i haven t seen the offer, you know. the secretary said he would e-mail it to me. i have not seen it yet. so before i say no totally, i would like to look at that to weigh in. ms. sherrod we appreciate very much you coming in. thank you. thank you for everything. thank you. best of luck to you. thanks. let s get a check of the rest of the top stories. ann curry is over at the news desk. hello, everybody. also in the news this morning there s a dramatic rescue operation still under way this morning in wyoming s grand teton national park. last night park rangers and a helicopter team removed 16 injured climbers from a mountainside after lightning struck the area. one climber was still missing, rescuers said that all of the victims suffered injuries related to the lightning strike, including burns and trauma. we ve got now on the telephone a public affairs officer for grand teton national park. jackie, good morning. what can you tell us about how hopeful the rescuers might be about finding the climber who is still missing? good morning, ann. we are hopeful, but given the darkness, and the long hours overnight that this person was out on the mountain, we are uncertain as to his condition this morning. at first light, which will be about 6:30 our time, it s now just about 5:15, we ll start looking for this individual again. we have rangers who spent the night on the mountain at a rescue hut on the lower saddle at the 11,600 foot elevation. they will begin a ground search. we ll also get a ship in the air to start doing an aerial search for this person when we have enough light this morning. we are always hopeful that we will find someone who s been able to survive the night. but, we are uncertain what happened to him. he went out of sight of his climbing party yesterday during the crux of the storm he went over a cliff. so we are uncertain as to his condition this morning. and what can you tell us about the condition, jackie, that he might have been in overnight, as people were not able to look because of darkness? was it cold? what kind of conditions would he have had to face? yes, i know the rest of the country is hot, but here in grand teton national park, and especially up on the teton range, overnight temperatures generally dip into the 30s. so it was likely mid 30s, maybe upper 30s, last night on the mountain. it s a sheer mountain and some of you may know that it s a very impressive mountain. the grand teton has sheer walls. it s exposed territory. it s rugged territory. the fact that he went over a cliff or a rock, described by his climbing party, tells us that he might have taken a fall. we don t know how far he might have fallen, and so once again, his condition is unknown, and it s unfortunate, but with the darkness last night, one of the things we always considered is the safety of our rescuers. we wanted to get as many people off the mountain as we could, but keep our rescuers safe. okay. therefore we had to suspend operations with darkness last night. all right. jackie skaggs, thank you so much this morning for giving us this information on this developing story. thank you. also in the news this morning, the house is voting today on a bill that extends jobless benefits for millions of americans whose unemployment checks have run out. the senate passed the bill on wednesday and president obama has promised to sign it as soon as it reaches his desk. overseas markets are mostly lower following wednesday s 109-point drop for the dow. cnbc s erin burnett is at the new york stock exchange. erin, federal reserve chairman ben bernanke rattled investors with his assessment of the economy yesterday. he sure did, ann. ben bernanke confirmed some of america s fears. when he talked about the economy he called the outlook quote unquote, unusually uncertain. interesting choice of words. and some of the toughest words he had about the jobs market. he called it the worst jobs market since the great depression and said it would take a significant amount of time to get back the 8.5 million jobs lost over the past two years. those words cast a shadow over what has been some very good earnings news from corporate america. 80% of companies thus far have done much better than expected. the latest today, ebay and continental airlines. still those words from the fed chief adding to fears that it s going to take a lot longer to get out of this slowdown than anybody thought. erin burnett, thank you so much. and things are looking up for five americans while pelicans that were injured before the bp oil spill, but then were trapped by the oil. they had a checkup wednesday at their new home at a zoo in chicago. let s go back to meredith, matt and al. always go that direction. all right, ann, thanks very much. hey, connecticut, parts of long island, some big storms good morning. here the humidity has dropped a little bit overnight with a fresh northwesterly breeze. high pressure moving in. it s 80 in washington. 70s in the suburbs and rural areas. highs should climb into the mid 90s with strong sun and lower humidity. tomorrow, partly cloudy, more humid and hotter, into the upper 90s. a small chance of afternoon storm. more of the same on saturday. on sunday a front comes through. will likely give it passing showers and thunder showers, high in the mid and low 90s. and that s your latest weather. matt? all right, al, thanks very much. as al just mentioned a storm churning in the tropics this morning has crews working on the disaster in the gulf preparing to temporarily evacuate. but there are some people still hard at work. nbc s kerry sanders is in the gulf on the deck of a ship that s about to launch a submarine that will be used to track oil beneath the surface. kerry, good morning to you. well, good morning, matt. i m on the aft deck of the stuart johnson. it s a research vessel from florida atlantic university as well as from noaa. are here to actually deploy once again this submarine. that s a four-man submersible. it will go into the water, and what they re looking for is evidence of oil. for the past 12 days, scientists have submerged 20 times. two to three dives a day, to depths of 1800 feet, into an underwater geography known to few, like the sticky ground. here, deep in the gulf of mexico, were moray eels, rare glass sponges, and leatherback turtles, there is cautious optimism. so far, the marine biologists on this mission have found no visible signs of oil. you haven t seen a large underwater plume of oil? thankfully. what about those little microscopic pieces of oil floating in the gulf? we haven t seen those yet. and those are very hard to detect. to determine if specks of oil, too small to see without a mass spectrometer, have spread this far, the submersible and another unmanned collection container are gathering water samples at various depths. and they re harvesting sponges, because living sponges are filter feeders, pumping hundreds of gallons of water a day. so by taking some samples of many of the sponges at the sites, we may be able to determine if they re concentrating any small amounts of oil and/or dispersants. the reason oil may come here, the so-called loop current, which is an undersea highway. ocean experts say the leaking oil that never came to the surface caught in that current could wind up hundreds, even thousands of miles away. that s why the harbor branch oceaneographic team is working with the federal government to get what they believe is a before picture of the gulf. it s what scientists call a baseline. so if oil shows up, the government will be able to force bp to clean up the damage, even here, where few people have ever ventured. what we re doing is the before. we re finding out what this ecosystem is like right now, before any impact, so that if there is an impact later on, you can compare the before and the after so that these quote unquote offending parties can restore that ecosystem back to the way it was before the offense occurred. mission number 21 deploys shortly and i m going to be sitting right in that seat right to the right there in the front of the submersible. we re going to go down to about 300 feet. at times this sub goes down to 3,000 feet. kerry, just a question, are you at all claustrophobic? i don t think i m claustrophobic. i guess i ll find out. but i don t think so. i think that s something the other three people in the sub might want to know right now. kerry, good luck to you, all right? we ll check in with you. thank you. okay. coming up an emotional hearing tied to the murder of aspiring actress julianna redding. was a man she dated behind the alleged murder for hire plot? but first, this is today on nbc. just ahead, would you have liked to have been on this boat? a couple too close for comfort encounter with a 40-ton whale. the answer is no. we re going to talk with them exclusively. but first these messages and a check of your local news and weather. good morning. 7:26 on this,000, july 22, 2010 i m aaron gilchrist. in the news4 today a fairfax county man is facing terror charges this morning. federal prosecutors say the 20-year-old tried to travel to somalia to train with a group that has tied to al qaeda. he attempted to board a flight out of jfk this month but was stopped because he s on the no-ply list. he s scheduled to peer in a federal court later today. weather and traffic coming up next. stay with us. good morning. i m meetologist tom kiernan. your four-day forecast. less humid today, highs 90s, with lots of sun. right now we re in the 70s. tomorrow and saturday, hotter more, humid up. small whans chance of afternoon. we are loaded up down to the sun, tom as you head down 395 from the beltway to and across the 14th street bridge. just the new lane configuration and sunshine. elsewhere, this morning in maryland, southbound route 29 is blocked now south of 198 burdensville. accident at green castle road. westbound 50, bowie, an accident. an accident 66 inbound at the capital beltway. busy out there. thanks a lot. get the news as soon as you wake up, news4 today begins every weekday morning at 4:30. tune in tomorrow for the 7:30 now on a thursday morning. 22nd day of july, 2010. nice morning to be lined up out on the plaza. temperatures a little more on the mild side. humidity down a little bit. just temporary, though. going back up again tomorrow. tomorrow john mayer comes to our plaza as part of our summer concert series in our 8:30 half hour. grammy award winner will light it up. a lot of people in the area, these folks, they should stick around for the show tomorrow morning. meanwhile, inside studio 1a, i m matt lauer along with meredith vieira. just ahead an incredible photo that s making headlines around the world. a whale watcher captured this image of the whale leaping from the water next to a sailboat. now it leapt out of the water next to the sailboat but eventually landed on that sailboat. it crushed parts of the boat. luckily the couple on board escaped unharmed. i look at this photo here and i think why didn t the whale, if we can put the photo back up, why didn t the whale pick on the big boat in the background? we re going to talk to the couple that was on board exclusively. it knew it could take the sailboat. also some other images getting a lot of attention. plus size model crystal wren say recent photos of her were retouched to make her appear much thinner than she actually is and she is fighting mad about it. this morning she s here to speak out about the controversy. and it now has a remarkable 500 million users but who actually owns the rights to the multibillion dollar empire that is facebook? we ll tell you about a new fight brewing over that. but we re going to begin this half hour with new details in the murder of aspiring actress and model julianna redding who prosecutors claim was the victim of a murder for hire plot. nbc s kristen welker is in los angeles with the latest. good morning to you. good morning to you, meredith. prosecutors weighed out some of their case in a los angeles courtroom to try to keep their prime suspect, kelly sue park, behind bars. they say she was part of a california doctor s plot to have his ex-girlfriend killed. was a crime of passion, in fact it was a crime of dispassion. it was cold, it was calculated reporter: during a heated hearing, prosecutors tried to increase the bail of 44-year-old kelly sue park. they say she is dangerous, and responsible for killing 21-year-old julianna redding two years ago. park has already been charged with murder for the crime. kelly park s dna was on julianna redding s coat. her dna was on julianna redding s clothing. reporter: in 2008, redding, an aspiring actress was starting to make her mark in hollywood. she landed a small role in an independent movie. showed up in a music video. and was named one of maxim magazine s hometown hotties. things were looking up for redding, until the night a murderer knocked on the door of her apartment. julianna redding s body was badly beaten, there was a terrible cut on her foot, and she had been strangled so fiercely that a bone in her neck was crushed. reporter: according to prosecutors, it was all a part of a murder-for-hire plot. they say the person behind it was this man, dr. uweda, who had been called a person of interest, but who recently left the country for business, according to his attorney, who will not disclose his location. the doctor is a spinal surgeon who specializes in workman s comp injury cases at clinics like this one in the san fernando valley. prosecutors say uweda had paid park more than $300,000, including a $113,000 payment just last month. an attorney for park says she was acting as his real estate broker and earning big commissions on her sales. that he had a quote female james bond, a woman that he could rely on to take care of business. reporter: so what was his motive? investigators believe dr. uweda dated julianna redding for a short time, and also had a business deal with redding s father, but her father backed out of the deal days before the murder. lawyers for the accused hit woman say park is not involved in. this is a defendant who has no prior record of any crime. reporter: park s lawyer also says the murder of a beautiful model just doesn t fit the profile of a professional hit. this homicide, from what i ve seen, far from bearing the earmarks of being some sort of contract killing or assassination killing or sending a message killing, looks to me like a rage killing. reporter: now, after hearing arguments, the judge agreed to raise park s bail from $1 million to $3.5 million. she has already pleaded not guilty, but prosecutors are still concerned that dr. uweda will try to pay for park s freedom and find a way to get her out of the country. all after what prosecutors say was a late-night meeting between two strangers that ended with a promising young actress dead. meredith? all right, kristen welker thank you, very much. and now let s get a check of the weather from al. thanks, meredith. and the heat wave continues throughout a good portion of the good morning. it is a pleasant thursday morning. we ve got a northwesterly breeze that s bringing in lower humidity. temperatures near 80 in washington. mid-70s in the suburbs and rural areas. highs in the mid 90s. this will be our ninth day in a row with temperatures above 90 degrees, but it will be less humid today. so more comfortable. and then the humidity increases as does the temperature tomorrow and saturday. each day upper 90s, near 100. small chance of afternoon storms. that s your latest weather. you want to check your weather any time of the day or night go to the weather channel on cable or go to the new weather.com. matt? all right, al, thanks very much. now to a couple in south africa with a whale of a story to tell. literally. take a look at this photo. ralph and paloma westerner were on their sailboat when a whale crash landed on the deck of their sailboat. they re with us exclusively. paloma is in cape town, south africa, ralph is joining us by phone. good morning to both of you. good morning. good morning. good morning, america. almost. paloma, let me start with you. i just want to go over something that we are hearing a lot of questions about. is this photo legitimate? there s been no photo shopping of this image or anything like that? it is definitely legitimate. we were on the boat and we saw the whale coming out, and we saw it. it s legitimate. it hasn t been photo shopped. all right, you guys were doing a little whale watching. i understand you had been following one whale for about an hour or so. you cut your engines so that you could be more quiet. did you follow all protocol? i mean, was there any fear on your part, paloma, that perhaps you were getting too close to this whale? first of all, we didn t cut the engines, we actually were sailing, so we didn t have the engine on, and we were not following the whale. we saw it about 400 meters away from us, and it was slipping its tail into the water, so we just watched it, and, no. we were not following it. we were just watching it. ralph, the image that is breathtaking is the one that we re looking at right now. i don t know if you can see it but it s the image of the whale actually coming out of the water, i mean right next to the sailboat, and what always gets me when i see that image, i go back to it, is look how close you were to this whale. i mean you were at the whole wheel of this boat. what were your thoughts when you saw this thing coming out of the water? well, you must remember that that was the third and final breach of this particular whale. the first time it breached about 400, 500 meters away from us. and a few seconds later it came up again halving that distance. and it seemed as though it would not be we would not be on a collision course. you must remember, we were not under power, we were under sail and we were at right angles to this whale. and i never for a minute thought this thing would hit the boat at all. i thought, if anything, our previous experience had been that whales actually dive under and, you know, come up on the other side of the boat at some stage. because we have a lot of whales. and blow me down, suddenly i saw this huge monster shape come up out of the water on my port side and yeah, that s it. i mean, it just happened in an instant. it was quite frightening. i had barnacles because they have lots of barnacles on them. and there was lots of skin, about a centimeter thick, but no blood and no blubber. so clearly it just had it was bruised and so on, and then slipped back. well, i just am amazed that the boat did not sink, which is very fortunate for the two of you. obviously this photo taken by a whale watcher a short distance away. it is certainly getting an awful lot of play all around the world. we re happy the two of you are okay this morning. yeah, no. we were very fortunate. it was an awesome experience. we wouldn t want to repeat it, but i can imagine, nobody would want to go through it again. ralph morrison and pal ohm yeah werner, thank you very much. first of all, it s a little difficult. we had people in different parts of the country there. but, i mean, if you re the guy standing at the wheel because you re probably not going to wear that outfit. that is a tough experience. yeah. it s one angry whale. i don t know what i don t think so. curious. apparently the whale had surfaced, he thought it would go underneath and sure enough, no. well, they re both lucky, that s for sure. up next, the most unlikely candidate for u.s. senator we ve ever come across. we re going to hear from him. we are back at 7:43 with south carolina s surprising democratic candidate for u.s. senate. al vin greene won his primary without campaigning. nbc s ron mott is in south carolina with more on that. ron, good morning to you. reporter: meredith, good morning to you. alvin greene literally came out of nowhere to win this nomination last month and he did so without making a single stump speech. over the weekend, though, he broke his silence at this school behind me and now says he s ready to tell the people of south carolina why he should be their next senator. he s running as the quintessential outsider. yet suddenly, if not remarkably, finds himself very much part of the in crowd. fielding calls from media outlets around the country, all trying to find out who in the world isal vin greene? an unemployed and unlikely 32-year-old who is now the democratic candidate for the u.s. senate in south carolina. i really want to just make sure that i get my message across to folks. and i m the best candidate in this united states senate race in south carolina, and that i have real plans for jobs, education and justice. reporter: all this follows greene s stunning democratic primary victory in june. hard work. reporter: but you did no work. stunning because greene held no rallies, ran no ads, and gave no speeches until his first this past weekend. my campaign is about getting south carolina and america back to work. reporter: greene put up the $10,000 filing fee to run himself and somehow beat an established politician, winning name recognition that most newcomers like him can only dream about. despite his unlikely success, the democratic party here has largely shunned him. they re coming around. they are supporting me. they just slowly coming around. reporter: but republican jim dementhe has little to fear says one analyst. al vin greene has absolutely no chance of winning this seat and there are very few democrats in the state of south carolina that would have any chance of winning this seat. reporter: don t tell that to greene, whose political aspirations have been building for years. this is a president collect from washington to nixon. reporter: presidential figurines have lined the book shelf in the family den ever since he was a boy. his political science degree a decade ago lines a nearby wall. i thought about this for awhile now as a soldier in the army. reporter: but for as much of a novice as he is, greene is adept at staying on message, no matter the question. the murky reason behind his military discharge after 13 years? we need justice in the army, and the united states and the air force, too. reporter: his pending felony obscenity charge? it goes back to my issues of jobs, education and justice. reporter: then there s the matter of his ideas. a minor league baseball team had hand shaking and a little fun about greene s proposal to create green jobs by making alvin greene action figures. we have to reclaim my country from the terrorists and communists. reporter: look at everything happening in the world, he adds to that one. we can t let my opponent keep this country hostage, and i have real plans for jobs, education, and justice, and my opponent has nothing. reporter: if nothing else, his opponent and the voters in south carolina, are ready for a most unusual race. you got my vote. i don t feel like he s really, really qualified. reporter: well, republican jim deminute is well out in front in the polls and in the money, but alvin greene remains undeterred saying this race will be about the issues and not about money. all right, ron mott, thank you very much. up next, could the founder of facebook be forced to give up 84% of the world s most popular social networking site? that brewing battle right after this. @p@p@0@pjú facebook has now reached a major milestone. the social networking site now has more than 500 million members worldwide. that s more than the population of the u.s., mexico and france combined. but a big battle is now brewing over who actually owns it. here s cnbc s scott cohen. reporter: half a billion friends. it s an exciting milestone for the facebook community. reporter: but facebook founder mark zuckerberg also has enemies. the social networking site is one of the most popular destinations on the web, turning zuckerberg into a bona fide media mogul. but two weeks ago while zuckerberg attended a meeting of fellow media moguls in sun valley idaho, he was hit by a lawsuit by upstate new york businessman paul seglia who claims he is the rightful owner of 84% of facebook, a business, that by one estimate, is worth as much as $35 billion. paul arjenierrri is his attorney. i can offer to mr. zuckerberg himself personally or any of his attorneys, i d be happy to show him the original contract. reporter: according to the lawsuit, zuckerberg signed this contract in 2003, when he was a freshman at harvard, calling for seglia to pay zuckerberg $1,000 for some computer programming and another $1,000 for controlling interest in a new website zuckerberg was working on called the facebook. but on abz zuckerberg disputed the document. we re quite sure that we did not sign a contract that says that they have any right to ownership over facebook. reporter: a facebook spokesman says the contract may have been forged, which seglia s attorney denies. last year the new york attorney general sued seglia for fraud involving a wood fuel business. it s not the first time someone s tried to get a piece of mark zuckerberg, who is just 26 years old. three former harvard classmates sued him in 2007, claiming he stole their idea. the case settled out of court last month, for a reported $65 million. you guys invented the facebook? reporter: this fall a movie about facebook is unlikely to paint a flattering picture. he stole our website. they re saying we stole the facebook i know what it says. so did we? reporter: those who follow the company say it goes with the territory. it is the social network right now. there is no viable competitor. really, i guess the only way to break into the chain is to either work with facebook or try and get a piece of it somehow. reporter: even with more than 500 million friends, it can be lonely at the top. for today, scott cohn, cnbc, new york. just ahead, the plus-size model who s furious over her pictures being retouched. we re going to talk to her after your local news and a look at your weather. live look outside right now. we can tell you the temperatures will climb again today, less humid, though. welcome back to news4 today. 7:56. our headlines a fairfax county man facing charterror charges. the 26-year-old tried to travel to somalia to train with a group that has ties to al qaeda. he attempted to board a flight to jfk this month but was stopped because he s on the no-fly list. he s scheduled to appear in acourt today. watch out for rat poisen in the georgetown area. jane owns the dog shop and discovered neon green rat poison pellets on the sidewalk. she knows three of the dog that have died of rat poisoning this year. weather good morning. your four-day forecast, temperatures near 8 oh less humid today. highs mid-90s, lots of sun. tomorrow, increased heat. the humidity will be back. a small chance of afternoon thunderstorm. up near 100 saturday afternoon. still humid and a small chance of afternoon storm. greater chance of storms around on sunday with highs in the mid 90s. a look into next week. somewhat lower humidity back for monday. could get more storms midweek. chopper 4 over an accident in montgomery county, serious in nature. southbound route 29, green castle road. left half of the roadway blocked off. they stopped all traffic temporarily. it s jammed from 216. do not try to use 29 southbound toward silver spring. 66 jammed an accident approaching the capital beltway moved to the shoulder. get the news as soon as you wake up. news4 today begins every weekday morning at 4:30. tune in tomorrow for all of the day s news, weather and eight clock now on this thursday morning, july 22nd, 2010. we have a fabulous crowd in rockefeller plaza. waving at loved ones back home. tomorrow they should come back because john mayer will be here, live on the plaza. i m meredith vieira along with matt lauer and al roker. coming up, a plus-size model. take a look at this picture. it looks okay, right? well, not to her. she says the photo was doctored, it is retouched and she s furious about it because she is a plus-size model. she doesn t like that that was done. we re going to talk to her about it. okay. also ahead, between lessons and practices, and then games, how much is too much time for kids to be involved in sports? and how do you know if it s actually starting to interfere with time with the family? we re going to different into that and talk to one family who finally said enough is enough. and they re not your daughter s jeans but they re not quite mom jeans either. how to find the right pair of denim for the mature woman. that would be me we re talking about. i aspire to wear mom jeans. by the way, you re not that mature. stop it. don t you laugh. he just means that you re youthful. that s exactly what he meant. let s get a check of the hour s top stories from ann curry at the news desk. all right, meredith, thank you so much. good morning once again, everybody. on this broadcast this morning, the agriculture department employee forced to resign by the obama administration this week said that she would like to speak to the president about what happened. shirley sherrod was accused of racism after a conservative website posted an ed itted video of her comments on race relations, which allowed them to be taken out of context. sherrod has now received apologies from the white house and the agriculture secretary tom vilsack. speaking to meredith earlier this morning sherrod was asked if she feels she deserves an apology from president obama? i think i do. you do? mm-hmm. an apology? well, you know, he is the president of the united states of america. i ve received the apologies that are important. i really would not want the president to apologize to me. i would love to have a conversation with him, though. sherrod also said at this point she doesn t think she will accept the new job offer from the agriculture department, but she has yet to see the offer. 2.5 million americans whose unemployment checks have run out could start receiving them again as early as next week. that s because the senate passed the bill wednesday restoring benefits to people who ve been out of work for at least six months. president obama is ready to sign this bill after a final vote by the house today. republicans are already talking about repealing that sweeping financial reform bill signed into law by president obama on wednesday. while the president says the law will further watch practices on wall street, republicans say it will hurt small banks and the businesses that rely on them. after saying for 18 months that he would clear his name on the witness stand, former illinois governor rod blagojevich did not take the stand at his federal corruption trial, and the defense rested wednesday without calling a single witness. nbc s john yang is at the white house in chicago with more on this story. john, good morning. reporter: good morning, ann. that was supposed to be the big moment, rod blagojevich on the stand in his own defense. but this morning, this trial is essentially over, not with a bang, but with a whimper. for 18 months, it was rod blagojevich s mantra. i expect to be fully vindicated and clear my name. i can t wait to take the stand and testify and get the truth out. every day goes by i get closer to taking that stand myself. i will prove my innocence and i will testify. reporter: but when the time came for his highly anticipated testimony, he decided it wasn t such a good idea after all. i ve learned a lot of lessons from this whole experience and perhaps maybe the biggest lesson i ve learned is that i talk too much. reporter: defense lawyers didn t call any witnesses at all. they say prosecutors didn t prove their case that blagojevich tried to trade president obama s senate seat for personal gain. that means the only thing jurors will hear from the former illinois governor is from secret fbi wiretaps. i ve got this thing, and if [ bleep ] golden, and i m just not giving it up [ bleep ]. out of his own mouth came these damning words, with no explanation from him in court. that s devastating. reporter: blagojevich said he wanted to take the stand, but was convinced not to by his father s own defense team, which itself was split. it simply came down to an argument between an old bull and a young toad and the old bull won. reporter: jurors will be back here at the federal courthouse on monday for closing arguments, and then they ll retire to decide the fate of rod blagojevich. ann? all right, john yang this morning. john, thanks. opponents of arizona s new immigration law get their day in court today. a federal judge in phoenix will hear two lawsuits seeking to block the law from taking into effect next week. one says the law are promote racial profiling. the judge hasn t said when she will make her ruling. forecasters say a storm in the caribbean will likely move into the gulf of mexico over the weekend. teams working on the ruptured oil well in the gulf are taking precautions, bringing their efforts to a near standstill until the storm passes. it s the first for latin america. argentina s president cristina fernandez signed a new law on wednesday legalizing same-sex marriage. the first ceremony is set for august 13th. and now here s britain williams with what s coming up on nbc nightly news. hey, brian. hey, ann, good morning. a month ago you may recall we reported on a big oyster processing plant that shut down because of the oil in the gulf. the employees who ve lost their livelihoods, a lot of our viewers responded, and we have some good news in our making a difference segment for folks tonight. good morning. it is a bit less humid on this thursday morning. our temperatures are in the upper 70s to near 80 degrees. now 82 in washington. but it s a hot day, even with the lower humidity into the mid 90s, lots of sun. then tomorrow, hotter and the humidity returns. a small chance of afternoon storm. perhaps hotter on saturday. still humid. small chance of afternoon storm. greater chance of showers and thunder showers around on sunday with highs in the mid 90s. it should turn less humid again first part of next week. and we ve got some cuties out here. what s happening? well, today is the farmer s insurance be a hero for babies day which supports the march of dimes mission. give all families, healthy full-term babies. so basically everyone text 0222, donate $5 so we can all have healthy babies. mr. roker, thank you very much. when we come back the plus-size model who was upset because some of her photos were doctored to make her look thinner. we ll talk to her right after these messages. get flawless skin, even in harsh, unflattering light. revlon photoready™ makeup. revlon s photoready™ formula bends and reflects light to help diffuse every flaw. revlon photoready™ makeup. find your perfect light. that makes everything taste better. maybe it s cooking over an open flame. or the juicy beef franks on a delicious bun fixed up just the way you like them. well, whatever it is, you can enjoy more of it with walmart s guaranteed unbeatable prices on all your cookout favorites. save money. live better. walmart. with fries, starting at just $5.99. like the rojo burger. for a little more, enjoy the new avocado burger. the perfect burger with fries, starting at just $5.99. and now get chili s to-go with new online ordering. have you tried honey bunches of oats yet? 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yes, i absolutely have. i basically started an exercise routine after seven years of being in recovery, i thought it was a great time as ever to start taking care of myself. and by introducing exercise back into my life. it was a time where eight hours in a day of hard, grueling exercise, you know, was normal. and i think that i m in a place now where i think i can do it in a healthy way and i think that s really important. so but you do consider yourself still at this point a plus-size model? yes. because the thing is, is what the industry thinks is plus, and what the public thinks is plus is, you know, different things. and that s why we get all the confusion. and oftentimes anger. because i am plus what the norm is. you know, what i do is basically, you know, you can be a size 8 all the way up to a 20. and that offers a lot of freedom because i m finding, you know, in my personal life even but even through other girls who have told me their stories, women fluctuate. and with what i do i can fluctuate as opposed to what i had to be before. so, let s look at these photos. they were taken for a charity that funds art, fashion to fashion. when you first saw them, what did you think? well, when i first saw the pictures i have to say i was absolutely shocked. i think i sat in silence for a good five minutes because i knew nothing of the pictures. so when i was looking at the computer screen, that s not what i saw. so i was absolutely shocked and i don t think it s an accurate portrayal of my body in any way. i m a size 10, and that is more like a size 2. and that s a picture of you after the fact sflp question yes. the photographer said he had some retouching done but that s normal. he also says it was minimal, and that he used a wide lens and he shot, i guess it was from above that makes you look slimmer. that s just the nature of the business. absolutely. i think that, you know, you can have all of those things and you would get an image like that. i think that i m known for my body, i m proud of my body. and i absolutely understand a reasonable amount of retouching, if you want to smooth things out. but to change my body completely, and i think that that s not me. that s not what i m about, that s not my message. so it s about the message, really? yes. you re concerned about what young girls looking at that picture, maybe even some of those who might be dealing with anorexia right now might think? yes, because i don t want them to think that my message isn ted same. that i think only being thin is the only way to be beautiful. beauty is not a pants size. and that s what i m about. and i think that it s about what i have to say. and how i live my life. which is in a healthy way, i believe, for me. and i think that s the most important thing. and i want them to know i m healthy. this caused quite a controversy on the blogs. in your own blog you said it s mass hysteria. what were people saying? why were they so hysterical about this? i would hope there was at least some legitimate concern for crystal s health. but i think mostly people felt maybe a sense of betrayal before they knew that the pictures had been retouched. i think that women have so few role models to look up to, public, widely accepted role models who portray beauty outside of something like this very narrow norm, they felt if now she clearly thinks that she needs to be skinny to be beautiful, i m going to have to do that, too. that said, if crystal decides to lose weight in a healthy way, that s her prerogative, she doesn t deserve to have people jumping all over her because of it. except she s become the poster child for plus size. which i m proud of. i m super proud of this. i want to inform people that this is an option for models and for people to find role models to look up to. you know, there s freedom in what i do. and i m it s something i m very proud of. plus size, some people scoff at the name but i think, you know, it s amazing to even be a part of the whole thing. what i think would end the confusion if we just call each other, all the models just models. no more straight size. no more plus size. because i think it s like us grens them. them against us. and that is absolutely not the way that women should look at each other. and i think if we did something like that, and that s where i m going. that s where my message is going. i want to get rid of titles. because they demean women and there s no need for them. so just to wrap this up you are not losing weight because you re feeling pressure from the industry now to oh, absolutely not. no. it s funny, because people i either keep running into for work, don t you lose any weight. you know, that s carl lagger field and cindy levi, who is fantastic. it s great that you know you have these wonderful people supporting you. crystal, nice to see you again. nice to see you. thank you. nice to see you. and up next, what you should do when your kid s sport times cut into family times. we re going to tell you right after this. on monday, mary likes yellow. tuesday mary likes red. on wednesday mary likes orange. on thursday, pink. on friday mary likes green. on saturday mary likes blue. and on sunday, mary wonders what she ll like next. 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no, you don t. and that was my family. that family mirrored my family. and it is very individual to families. if your kids are having fun, that s all that matters. if you decide that they re not having fun, if they start getting stressed about it, then you know it s too much. but what if one child is having fun excelling and traveling all over and it s detracting from the other kids and the family time they have. there you go. and that becomes the test in life. you ve got three tests. one of them is the family test. is it interacting and really, the siblings, is it causing rivalry? the wallet test? is it too much of a drain? and most importantly the kid test. you ve got to keep looking at that kid and making sure that there s still that glorious thing called passion. he loves it, and then keep going. what about skill level? okay? do you let your child get carried away, traveling all around the region, to play a sport, unless you take in real stock of whether that child has talent to go further in that sport? or does that not even matter? its shouldn t matter. first of all, you know how drastically different kids growth rates are. so if you have a kid who is amazing at 12, chances are everyone else is going to catch up by the time they re 15 and 16. so that kind of doesn t matter. and also, keep in mind that less than 1% of kids make it to the pros, so that should never be the goal. matt, think about as a rubber band. what your whole goal is to stretch the kid from where they are, stretch, stretch, stretch without snapping. and the real goal as a parent is to make sure that the expectations are there. they re realistic, but that passion and that love is still there. the problem is, of course, that a lot of parents live vicariously through their kids and they want this more than the kids. exactly. that s why you ve got to keep checking your feet. are you standing behind your kid pushing or is your kid in front of you pulling? and the other thing real quickly is there are some great benefits to kids participating in individual and team sports. here s what you want. you want your kid to develop a lifelong love of fitness and health. okay? and that should be the ultimate goal. but here s the scary part is 70% of kids drop out of organized sports by the time they re 13. this is bad. and a lot of it has to do with overexcited parents. it s balance. it s all about balance. thanks very much, ladies. appreciate it. and just ahead, jeans that work with any body type. we re going to have that. but first, your local news and a look at your local forecast. 8:26 is your time now. 82 degrees. a touch less humidity out there. might make a difference. tom will have the forecast after the news. good morning, i m eun yang. more people are taking public transportation than ever before. the latest state of the survey found 60% of commuters are satisfied with the trip to work, and that makes 40% not happy with it. the new survey could be used by regional plans are considering transportation alternatives for the future. we re going to take a quick break. we ll have weather and traffic when we come back. stay with us. good morning, i m tom kiernan. hot, up into the mid 90s, lots of sun. tomorrow heat returns. tomorrow a small chance of afternoon storms. could get storms sunday. tough morning. chop chopper 4 over the scene of an accident a short time ago affecting the commute. 29 southbound below route 198. now in the back of 216 an accident dealing with a real mess. 270 an accident southbound right at the split has just been cleared. we re jammed germantown 395 loaded up beltway into downtown. very tough. get all of the news at soon as you wake up. news4 today begins every weekday morning at 4 8:30 now on a thursday morning. it s the 22nd day of july, 2010. got a nice group of people here on the plaza. it s a pretty day. temperatures a little more manageable. humidity is down, and hopefully this kind of weather will last until tomorrow when we ve got another great summer concert out here on the plaza. john mayer taking to our concert stage in our 8:30 half hour. come on down, check it out. check it out. out on the plaza i m matt lauer along with meredith vieira, al roker and ann curry. coming up in this half hour, one of our favorite segments from bow to wow. another group of dogs, some eclectic. they re in need of a new look and most importantly, new homes. and we re going to show you those dogs in just a little while and hopefully you ll pick up the phone and make them very happy courtesy of jill rappaport. are you going to call them? well, you don t call them directly. you call us and we put you in contact with the dogs. and every dog has been adopted so far. also coming up it is amazing. and jill does a great job. also, a woman may age going to look for jeans, to fit in, you just can t find ones that are right for you. what are you looking for? well, you re looking for you don t want the mom jeans but you can t wear your daughter s jeans anymore. but there are jeans that designers are designing for women my age, 50 and over, because we are the number one buyers of jeans in the country, believe it or not. and they re they are, great jeans for the older woman. you have a road trip this summer. are you doing that? oh, great. i m taking a road trip. not with the kids, though. that s the best. are you? we are going to be doing it, and and and we ve got some advice on, are we brief relief. brief break from our usual high humidity. today, the lower humidity in place. temperatures right now are near 80 degrees. but it s going to be a hot afternoon, up into the mid 90s, lots of sun. humidity returns, increases tomorrow as does the temperature. should be climbing into the upper 90s. then on saturday, the temperature up near 100 degrees. and it will hit the mid 90s on sunday. friday and saturday, just a small chance of storms, greater chance sunday. and don t forget, check your weather any time of the day or night and find the right jeans for you, weather.com online or the weather channel on cable. okay. i m itching, i think i have fleas. we have dogs here. from bow to wow coming up right after this. we re back now with our series from bow to wow . this is a great idea where we take dogs from a shelter, clean them up and hopefully find them great new homes. our resident animal lover jill rappaport is here with this month s batch of dogs. you can only use one board for this batch, perfection. it s a potpourri, matt. we have all sorts from big to small, from puppies to adults, but they all have one thing in common, they are all magnificent. july animal care control of new york city brought us a spectacular array of canines. starting with ice. who is anything but. this warm-loving boy is a young, husky mix with his breed trademark, the incredible eyes. unbelievable to find this beautiful guy in a shelter. 2 1/2 years old, another stray. we rescued. look at these eyes. he ll do well outside a lot, you know, because he has a really thick coat. so, somebody that spends a lot of time outdoors, he ll be perfect for them. beautiful boy. ice, ice baby. from husky to petite. meet isabelle. a little jack russell, a little chihuahua, a lot of spunk. look at this little bundle of love. oh. 5-month-old chihuahua/jack russell mix. she was found in a park. reporter: even though she s little she s very energetic. she loves to kiss. there you go. and from miniature to major. meet beautiful bo. a puppy and a purebred to boot. unbelievable. 5-month-old purebred yellow lab. yep. reporter: and this is one of the most popular breezes. the sweetest dogs. great with kids. yep. reporter: why in the world would someone abandon this dog? i don t know. they actually bought him from the pet store and the owner said they had personal problems and couldn t care for him anymore. he s absolutely beautiful. reporter: yes, you do. look at the size of these paws. this is going to be a big boy. and last up, an irresistible schnauzer, who loves to snooze and schmooze. now this love bug s name is hampton. 4-year-old schnauzer. very sweet and playful and schnauzers are extremely intelligent. yep, they re intelligent. we don t get a lot of schnauzers in. reporter: considering he was abandoned you think he d be much more timid. oh, no. reporter: actually, considering his name, i think he s meant for life on the beach. for dogs, all longing for a loving home. really cute. richard from animal care and control of new york city. hi, richard, good to see you. hi. i know you ve got a lot of dogs in shelters at this time of year. but also you want families who are thinking of adopting to realize that while they have a lot of free time right now, they re going to get busy again in the fall. yep. you re on vacation, kids are home from school. when their schedules change come september they ve got to remember they have their pet and their pet needs to be taken care of, walked and fed and everything, and make sure that they continue to be part of that family. all right. we ve got four great dogs that we just mentioned. our first dog is eyes. let s take a look at ice s before picture and now meredith is going to bring ice out. now richard, this dog, does it have needs in terms of shouldn t be indoors? well, because of the breed he s really good in the cold weather, obviously. the cooler weather, but he needs a lot of exercise. he would be good in a home by himself. got the beautiful blue eyes. isn t he gorgeous? beautiful. how old again? he s 3 years old. 3 years old. beautiful. and meredith, thank you very much. nice job. way to control ice. our next door is hampton. of all the dogs, this dog probably needed the most trimming. so there s the before picture. and tamron hall is here to bring hampton out now. what do we need to know. hampton is a little rambunctious. going to need a little house training. it s interesting when you get into the home he likes to curl up on your lap and relax and becomes a lap dog. he s very excitable, very rambunctious. he s going to need a little bit of leash training. you don t see these all that often. no, you don t see these all that often. but very affectionate. you literally, when you pick him up, he s a great baby. tamron, thank you very much. all right next we have bo. let s put bo s picture up. purebred yellow lab. puppy. and now our page brittany, who by the way, got all gussied up for the occasion. brittany, hi, bo. bo is only 5 months old. you can see how big he is. he s going to need to be trained. he s losing his teeth now, so he needs a lot of chew toys for that teething. a lot of exercise, obviously. loves water like most labs. i m actually surprised, richard, for a 5-month-old puppy, he s really lays down right on cue, huh matt? he s really good. sits on command now. he s so beautiful. oh, look at that. this is a great dog. oh. this is a great dog. obviously a lot of stage fright here. but again, can you believe the dogs that you can find at your shelter? incredible. brittany, nice job. thank you very much. appreciate it. and finally we ve got little isabelle. let s take a look at isabelle at the shelter. she didn t need that much cleaning up, and we ve got ann bringing isabelle out. richard, tell me about her. isabelle was also 5 months old. she is a terrier mix. she s a little timid at first but warms up really quickly. you ll find once you get to know her she ll follow you around a little bit. the other thing is she s very agile. a lot of terriers are. she s adorable. and not yappy. not yappy. all. quiet. not yappy at all. what are you doing? let s bring all the dogs back out. brittany come out, meredith, tamron, bring them all out and again, richard, we can adopt these dogs, find out more. meredith, control your dog. contact us. all right, richard, thank you very much. jill, thank you very much. ladies and gentlemen, always nice to see isabelle. we re going to have much more ahead on a thursday morning right after these messages. back at 8:44. this morning on our special series, 50, living it, loving it. not your daughter s jeans. along with bathing suits, bra shopping, the search for the perfect pair of denim is among the top three most hated retail experiences for women. today s style editor bobbie thomas has solutions for finding a compromise between those dreaded mom jeans and the teeny look. good morning to you. good morning. truth is, my age group are the number one purchasers of jeans. absolutely. we still love them but we can t find the right fit. finally designers are noticing us. yes, and i want to thank all the baby boomers out there for helping us feel more comfortable not only in our skin but in our denim. you can have style and stretch together because there has been this big gap and i do think that retailers are noticing, beyond somebody who is going to buy a rigid, slim, low-waisted pair in your 20s, no one wants to step out in an ugly mom jean, either. exactly. what are the body issues that we have to deal with, older women? after 30 your muscle mass decreases, your metabolism slows, and if you have children, you know, face it your hips expand, literally and won t move back. so there are biological issues that we have to just realize this is who we are. what i do love about the modern woman, especially the mature woman who is comfortable in her own skin, she is just demanding the comfort or she s not going to buy the jean. that s what s great. that s what s driving these new designs. absolutely. let s bring out our first look called the feel-good fit. our model is loreate. lorette looks like a supermodel to me. she has three children. one thing, she can t wear her daughter s jeans. her daughter is sheer with her today. she was saying the rise and especially the waistline for her. because it s so low. first the lowness but this has a very respectable rise. but inside the waist band is a hidden elastic waist band and this is the perfect waist by levi. it s pulling on it but it s smooth and comfortable. i always said muffin top existed because it had to. anyone who s going to put on a pair of nonstretch waist band, i don t care if you re 25, it s going to go somewhere. this is a really great option, you can have lunch and you re fine. so this is a great look. laura, thank you, that s adorable. next category is cut for curves. women with a lot of those, obviously, and our model is danielle. what is she wearing and what body parts to these jeans address? first danielle, she was just fantastic. she said i want everyone to know i m a proud size 12, i m wearing white denim. and she s got beautiful curves. and her backside, she really wanted to make sure she could bend over. this is c.j. by cookie johnson, magic johnson s wife. she s a beautiful woman and had real curves and wanted to design a collection that she felt fit and flattered a woman. how does it work? it has it s still a stylish cut but she added enough fabric to cover your rear and hips but it s still really great. pocket placement and all the designer details you would expect. thank you. that looks fantastic. now built-in support. that category. come on out, kathy. this is our model. again, gorgeous, what i love about these jeans they re $29.99 at macy s. this is style and co. . i have other friends who have pulled their jeans on over a foundation garment. that s uncomfortable. this has a built-in tummy control panel. and what s great is that it s the two in one and for under $30 i love this option at macy s. it s a fantastic, clean, basic boot cut that s going to be flattering on anyone. it looks fantastic. thank you very much, kathy. okay and our last category is called 360 stretch. our model is gloria. please come out. explain that name 360 stretch. gloria just celebrated her birthday. she is our top mama over 60. what s great is accent lycra is the buzz word. this brand new line henry and bell wanted to go after women with more realistic body shapes. a lot of demographics are turning to the extra lycra because it moves in four directions and recovers nice so it doesn t bag out. gloria loves this. i think she s a supermodel as well. but she has very small legs and a waistline she always had a hard time matching. this jean is going to stretch in just the right places for her. it looks fantastic. why bother to go into a jean, your daughter s jeans when you have these options? all the models come on out. absolutely. it s fantastic. all these jeans can we find them in normal retail stores? normal stores. levis are $40. i wanted to range from premium down to the basic. the days of 300 plus jeans are over? it s tough for this economy. yeah, it s ridiculous, too. for $29 you can t beat that. thank you so much, bobbi. thank you, ladies. we re back in a moment. this morning on today s family, the summer reading slide. studies show that even a little reading over the summer break helps kids retain what they learned during the school year. so we asked some familiar faces for advice. on returning to school stronger than ever. school may be out but the focus on summer reading is in. who better than our resident al s book club kid critics sabrina, ava, spencer and miles, to tackle the issue of the summer reading slide. first stop, the new york public library. why do you think that it s important that kids should read overed summer? because it s a nine some none called summer slide. for every month that you don t read in the summer you lose most of the reading skills you just acquired at the end of your school year. reporter: many public libraries have summer reading programs which are great ways to keep up the good work. the library has a lot of things going on and i just wanted to know if things like this are going around the state and the country? yes. everybody should go to his or her public library to find out about their summer reading program. reporter: 5-year-old emma hook has become a master at reading. tackling 270 books last summer. winning tickets to a yankee game. what did your teacher think when you told her that you read 270 books last summer? she was impressed. did she give you a thumb s up? yes. i m going to give you a thumb s up, too. how many books are goug read this summer? 100 million. whoa that s a big, big number. you really want to read that much? yeah. reporter: speaking of millions, there are tons of ways to keep reading a priority over the summer. they re never too old for you to read aloud. reporter: sarah piccard taylor is with the teacher s college reading and writing project at columbia university and tours schools around the country talking to parents like this one at p.s. 29 in brooklyn. my number one piece of advice is to create a ritual around reading in your own home. magazines like highlights or cricket, those are fun magazines for them to get in the mail. getting kids into a series that they love will make them want to read one book after another after another. three options reporter: audio stories are also a great option. like tales to go created by william and tracy wyle. this is a way to get more literature in their life. you re on the go. it can be a family event in the car. moms and dads can listen too, and it can spark discussion. reporter: which is a great way to incorporate reading into your summer travel. bring along some things for the kids to read to help you almost plan the vacation. they could be reading museum maps, they could be reading the guide book. all that will keep them engaged in reading for a few minutes each day. hard sometimes to get your kids to read in the summer. yeah. what about that kid that ran read? 200 you re doing a little reading right now. what about this story about the british prime minister, david cameron, here in the united states, came to washington, then to new york, and flew business class commercial to get to the united states as opposed to a private plane, chartering a 747. i love it. i do, too. tighten to their belts so he s going to walk the walk here and do the same thing. saved what, $300,000? something like that. obviously had security issues. i mean they have to fly with security and that might pose a problem for some u.s. lawmakers, for example, the president. i don t think we re going to end up seeing that. i don t know if i want the president doing it. but he is the equivalent, though. he s britain s prime minister. what are you saying? i m saying it would probably screw up the airport. i was talking about this yesterday on some other network and they were saying some people don t like the idea because these people are targets and they don t want you don t want to be on the plane with the prime minister of great britain? right. especially now when people are mad. just trying to make a polite cool statement because he s really he s considered to be a slash and burn prime minister in terms of what he s going to do with the budget. anyway, so we ll see what happens. all right. fly coach. 8:56 is your time now. 82 degrees. a lovely morn in nation s capital. lower humidity as well. tom will have the forecast after the news. good morning, i m eun yang. a fairfax county man is facing terror charges this morning. federal prosecutors say they tried to travel to somalia to train with a group that has ties to al qaeda. he attempted to board a flight out of jfk this month but topped because he is on the no fly list. he s scheduled to appear in court in alexandria today. a warning for pet owners. watch out for rat poison in the georgetown area. jane discovered neon green rat poison pellets on the sidewalk. she knows of three dogs who have died of rat poisoning in the area this year alone. we ll take a quick break been weather and traffic when we come look inside a more than 17 billion dollar investment, and what do you see? at at&t, we see the dreams and ambitions of everyday americans coming true. we see an economic recovery taking root as businesses grow and prosper and add jobs, thanks to the amazing power of an open internet that works. america needs an internet that is always getting faster, safer, and more secure. at at&t, our investment last year of more than 17 billion dollars in the wireless and wired networks of tomorrow is what s fueling innovation today and creating jobs and opportunities now. we invest because we know the internet works. it s working for our children, our families, our economy and our future. and if there were ever a time to stick with what works, now is it. the future has always been our business. and the future begins now. good morning. i m tom kiernan. four-day forecast. afternoon highs into the mid 90s. less humid today. lots of sun, more humidity and heat friday and saturday. small chance of storms both days. greater chance sunday. how s the traffic now? tom, the accident 270 south bound at split cleared jammed from germantown. broke. down vehicle, three hours and counting still in the roadway with a police officer there. come on, d.c. we re back now with more of today on this thursday morning. it s the 22nd day of july, 2010. it s a bright, sunny day here in rockefeller plaza. a couple of things. we ve got a huge crowd. secondly it feels a littl more comfortable. after about a week or so of really, hot, humid weather. it s going to be warm but the humidity is down so it s going to be a lot more comfortable. it s comfortable enough to breathe right now. i m matt lauer along with al roker and tamron hall. natalie is on assignment. coming up, more from the mel gibson saga. yeah, this thing just keeps getting uglier. more allegations of abuse, we still have the rant on the voicemail. and now even mel gibson s ex, oksana grigorieva is being accused of extortion. we ll take a look at it. and another big question, matt and al, is has his career survive? will people go to see a movie starring mel gibson? we ll take a look at all of those elements. a lot of that could depend on whether it s proven or not proven. so we ll see. that s right. and then we ve got that story about the whale. oh, the whale of a tale. you ve seen this photo. this is apparently is not doctored. this is legitimate. a couple sailing off south africa tape town, a whale, a right whale, in the wrong place. breaches and lands on their sailboat. damage was extensive. but luckily, they were okay. we re going to talk to them exclusively. that is truly a case of we re going to need a bigger boat. i know it s happened to me. i m sure it s happened to you. you go to the mall, one of the big box stores to get one thing, you end up coming out with more than you ever planned on doing. we re going to tell you how the psychology of spending, and how overspending triggers your your your mood. we re going to show you how to avoid these triggers and not overspend. and then if you re one of the millions of families who are going to be hitting the road this summer doing the family road trip but you re dreading it, well we ve got the ways to get around it. and both for adults and the kids. so it s a whine-free ride. i always think about my childhood in the conversion van with my dog, tv rabbit ears and the chevy chase movie. that was my family, wally world. no question about it, are we there yet? let s get inside, ann s standing by at the news desk. hi, matt. thank you so much. good morning once again, everybody. in the news, the search is resuming this morning for a mountain climber who disappeared during a lightning storm in wyoming s grand teton national park. the dramatic rescue operation began after the storm last night with park rangers and a helicopter team bringing down 16 other climbers, many of them injured by the lightning strikes. nato says two u.s. service members died this morning in a helicopter crash in southern afghanistan. dozens of ships are preparing to pull out of the gulf of mexico today as a tropical storm appears about to be headed their way. the storm now building in the caribbean has forced engineers working on bp s ruptured oil well in the gulf to stop their efforts as a precaution. the former agriculture department official forced to resign by the obama administration said on this broadcast this morning that she does not want the president to personally apologize, but she would like to speak with him. shirley sherrod, put under pressure tuesday after a conservative website posted an edited version of her speech on race relations, which portrayed her as a racist. sherrod has since received an apology from the agriculture secretary tom vilsack and she has been offered now a new position. the ink is hardly dry on that new financial reform bill and republicans are already talking about repealing it. the president, who signed the bill on wednesday, said that it will protect consumers and rein in practices on wall street. but republicans say it will be a burden on small banks and businesses. a house vote today is expected to send president obama a measure to resume unemployment benefits to 2.5 million americans who have been out of work for at least six months. a lengthy standoff in the senate finally ended on wednesday, and some of those who lost their benefits can exeffect retro active payments as early as next week. there is a new call for natural childbirth for women who have had c-seconds. hoping to reverse hospital trends the american college of obstetricians and gynecologists is rewriting the guidelines for women who have had one or even two c-sections to encourage them to try labor in later pregnancies. this follows a similar decision by a panel of the national institute of health currently 30% of births in this country are c-sections. it s being called a significant victory for the rights of passengers on cruise ships. a bill requiring cruise ships to improve passenger and crew safety and to crack down on crime at sea is now being sent to president obama for his signature. and as matt showed you a south american south african, rather, couple is lucky to be alive after a 40-ton whale jumped out of the water and crashed into their yacht on on on sunday. ralph mortis described the moment of terror in a phone interview this morning on this broadcast. blow me down, suddenly, i saw this huge monster shape come up out of the water on my port side. and yeah, that s it. i mean, it just happened in an instant. the whale broke the boat s mast and damaged the cabin before diving back into the water. but the couple is okay. it is now five minutes past the hour. let s go back outside to matt and tamron today. and al in the picture. al i here the heat is on. good morning. already now climbing into the mid 80s. it s 84 in washington. but the humidity has dropped a bit overnight. it will be somewhat less humid throughout the day as highs reach mid-90s this afternoon. ht hotter os humidity returns friday and saturday. both days small chance of passing afternoon thunderstorm. a front sunday may trigger showers and thunder showers to be followed by lower humidity for monday. that s your latest weather. tamron, jim shows you how to taunt the whales. i ll be sure not to try it on my next sailing expedition. thank you, al. he was once a hollywood heartthrob and power player. now mel gibson s life is playing out in the headlines amid allegations he hit his former girlfriend. and now investigators are looking into allegations she tried to extort him. people magazine s senior editor, kate, good morning. good morning. are you at all surprised at this point that mel gibson has not come out and tried to defend his name, his honor at this point? well, on some level he is. he has lawyers who are working very hard to argue in the court that he is not any of the things that these tapes would allege that he is. that he is not abusive, and he has never tried to harm the mother of his child. maybe he certainly never tried to harm his child. so he s going about this in a very legal, and perhaps not as public way. but he is working on defending himself. while he s working on that, on the other side, someone hur is working to paint a picture of mel gibson. i want to play a clip from one of the many rants now on the internet, allegedly of mel gibson. child and she doesn t need a gold digging [ bleep ] russian [ bleep ]. you re acting as a crazy man right now. and you have been for many, many months. and you hit me and you hit her while she was in my hands. so oksana grigorieva is denying that she released the tapes to the public. but we do know there s now an investigation on alleged extortion on her part. this is ugly on both sides. obviously everything that s alleged in these tapes, and now there s the other side alleging that these tapes only exist as an extortion ploy to get money out of mel to keep her from releasing them. has there been any proof of this alleged extortion? not not in the public eye yet. things are being introduced into court all the time. there s still the lawyers are continuing to battle this out. but so far in the public eye, there s been no evidence. and there s also been a picture of oksana grigorieva, allegedly showing her teeth broken. she refers to it in this audiotape, as well. but, in the end, you ve got mel gibson s former wife robin defending him. you have some friends, but few, sticking up for him. can his career, if that s what s even important at this point, survive? i don t think the career is what s important to him right now. and certainly mel has been successful enough over the past decade that making another hit movie isn t a huge, at least financial, concern for him. but, you know, there are definitely people who have not counted him out, who think that, you know, it is possible that he will be able to recover from this. in your research you know, if this is mel gibson on this audiotape you would think that this doesn t happen overnight. that if someone has that kind of rage or those quote/unquote issues, that it would have surfaced over time. did people magazine find any evidence of that? well, certainly it s been well-known that he is an edgy, brooding, very masculine kind of guy and that he has a a lot of guys have that and they do. and they have tempers, and you know, you can think of russell crowe throwing a telephone or things like that. these things do happen. there are action stars who have the temper to go with it. but it s interesting, one of the things that might, in a way, almost be a defense of this phone call is this is so off the map. this is so intense, so crazy, so deranged at times that it almost seems impossible this would be the way anybody would normally behave. that this would be anything they would be capable of. but there s so many calls. i stayed up because i wanted to hear them in their entirety. one lasted 11 minutes. i thought how could someone keep that level of anger for so long? well, obviously this is a relationship that is profoundly toxic, and created a level of rage in in this person, allegedly mel gibson, that, you know, clearly i don t think anyone could sustain that. it s hard to believe sustaining it for 11 minutes. i doubt he could have sustained that for a lifetime. what about her reports that he may move to australia, that he can t take life here anymore, that the microscope is too intense? those have been unfounded so far. you know, obviously, mel has enough money to live wherever he wants to live. he also has enough money to, you know, keep the paparazzi where there haven t been a lot of images of him. i m sure he s being handled but he s been able to stay out of the public eye primarily since this all blew up. sounds like this will play out in court and we ll see what the next step is in his life and his career. exactly. all right, kate, we appreciate you coming on. coming up, how not to blow your budget when you head out to the mall. and later, ruins of the road. trips for keeping the peace and entertaining the kids on your family vacation. 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you re not alone. there s actually a psychology to overspending. here to help us identify the triggers and help us spend less, margo gilman, deputy editor with ladies home journal. in this article you wrote something i thought that was kind of interesting. just because you like to shop and you do it a lot doesn t mean you shop well. yeah, well, i think that a lot of us consider ourselves really great shoppers, because we certainly spend a lot of time doing it. but a lot of us also have, you know, the experience of going into a store, with the idea of getting something, you know, pedestrian like a pair of sports socks or a tea kettle or to get toilet paper. and you emerge three hours later can half a dozen shopping bags. every time i go into costco the costco effect, yes. i end up $300. just because you love to shop and do it a lot doesn t necessarily mean that you re good at it. doesn t necessarily mean that you re aware of the triggers that markets use to get us to spend more or triggers that make us buy things we don t need. in other words there are external triggers and internal triggers? yes, both kinds. you say people need hands off. yes, well there s on interesting study that finds that if you actually spend time touching a product, you re more likely to buy it. you know how they say, possession is nine tenths of the law? possession is nine tenths of the purchase. so once you pick that purse up and put it over your shoulder? it s more likely to wind up, you re more likely to wind up at the cash register. this is why car dealerships let you have 24-hour test drives. they know if you take that car home with you, you ll develop some affection for it. a lot of bookstores have nice little places for you to go and read because you re going to walk that book to the register. if you want to curtail your spending you need to go to a hands-off policy. don t go shopping with a crowd. yes. this is another interesting effect. it s very subtle, you re not often aware of it. but people have been found to spend more money on things when they think that they re being watched. it doesn t matter who s watching you. could be a perfect stranger. it could be a friend. where it s all about our self-imp.j. and we don t want people to think of us as being cheap. so, you know, this is something that affects younger people more than older people. but it s a need to be aware of when you re shopping. you re never going to get macy s all to yourself. right. the other thing you say remove the temptation. you get all these catalogs, get rid of that? yes, there s a reason that victoria s secret sends catalogs once a month. there s a reason why retailers beam you daily with, you know, new merchandise, you know. it works. you know, it s it s very seductive. we want to own these things and the only way to handle that is cut it off at the source. there are places you can go to get off the catalog list? you can unsubscribe at the bottom of the e-mails that you can get. or what i do, i just don t even let the temptation come into my house. i stand there at the garbage can by the mailboxes and i just dump them in the trash. recyclable trash. the other thing i thought is really interesting is you say consider the true cost of what it is you re buying. right, right. i think this year you really want to is your tail your spending, a smart thing to do is to think about the purchase, not just in terms of dollars and cents, but in terms of, you know, other tangibles, like think, you know, that dress is $200. well, you know, how many days would i have to work. how many hours would i have to work to afford that? or what could i get is it a car payment? you know, if you go through the process of really thinking about what is important, and what is valuable to you, you might, you know, be able to put the impulse aside and do more. rational about it. the other trick, of course, triggers when you see that word sale. yes, sales are tricky aren t they. because i think there s probably nobody in his room who doesn t have a closet full of things that they bought on sale but they never used. they don t even like, right? and that s because marketers are very good at using, you know stirring up a frenzy. you know, midnight madness sale. limited quantities, get it now. and we react to that. we want to acquire these things and we want to be part of it. and there s also, i think, the sale, the whole treasure hunt aspect of it. you know, you ve seen it in a magazine. you know what it s worth. you found something. and hear you can get it for 20% of the original price. that can trump our luck, too. so if it doesn t fit and it s not a flattering color. i want to jump to credit and debit cards. huge credit card problem in this country. credit debt. and you just have to think about it. a credit card is sort of this little piece of plastic. it s once removed from the sweat that it took to earn the green that the card can spend for you. so, studies have found that people who actually use cash could spend, instead of credit cards, will spend less. so, if you actually see the dollars going out of your pocket, you know. all right, thank you so much. and for more information and more tips go to our website at todayshow.com. coming up, keeping the kids occupied when we hit the road this summer and later, your children but first these messages., go s now i know freedom is all that i need [ female announcer ] ladies, raise your spoons. now there s nothing left standing between you and a satisfying breakfast. introducing special k low-fat granola. with 50% less fat than the leading granola and 5 grams of fiber per serving, it s a satisfying way to help you manage your weight. special k low-fat granola a taste of freedom. to create a technologically advanced clog-buster and pipe-wall cleaner. liquid plumr foaming pipe snake. unleash the power of the plumr. and my car was worn out, so we got the 97 camry. when i was 16, i got the camry, and i drove it for nine years. then when i turned 16, i was passed down the camry. i was like, yes! 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a road trip with the kids can certainly be you ve got a road trip coming. to texas. it s supposed to be bonding. we ll see if that works out. it can also mean back seat fights, whining, boredom. and that s tamron. but this morning we re going to give you some fun ideas for keeping the kids happy and occupied and some parenting tips to help keep the peace. i will be in the car with four children ranging in age from 13 to 8 months. all right. i need a drink. we ll also check out how one woman is breaking bread with women around the world helping them find jobs and lift their self-esteem, just by teaching them how to bake. and on that note we re going to get a lesson in traditional mexican cooking, veracruz style red snapper and rice in today s kitchen. very nice, in the meantime let s get a check of the weather. all right, let s check your weather for the weekend. it s going to be sizzling. temperature about good morning. a brief break from our high humidity on this thursday. already temperatures though are hitting mid 80s. heat is on. we ll hit the mid 90s by midafternoon. it will be somewhat less humid but humidity returns tomorrow, friday. hotter, too, into the urppper 9 top. a small chance of isolated thunder shower. the same on saturday. a record high saturday. the record is 96. we ll probably exceed that. sunday a greater chance of showers and thunderstorms. and that s your latest weather. all right, al, thank you very much. up next the rules of the road to make your family vacation fun for everyone. right after this. when i was seventeen i was not good to my skin. long summer days, and not enough sleep. what i wouldn t do for a do-over. 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here to help you save your sanity is parenting expert michelle borba. good morning. good morning to you. s start with the big question, when the kids say, are we there yet? well, almost is the answer. there s four things you ve got to keep in mind. if we re a little prepared ahead of time, why do kids usually act up? boredom, hunger, fatigue and too close quarters. if we can solve those four elements that s what we re going to do today. it s going to be a less stressed you and a happier kid. that s what you wanted is a family vacation. it s a great time to bond. you say start off with setting the rules of the road. the house rules, same for the car. write them down. the most inevitable ones are hands to self, quieter voice, keep your seat belt on, and just enjoy life. but if they know what the rules are you re more likely to keep that behavior intact and your best ploy when they get out of control, break. use the rear view mirror, then slowly move over to the side, shut off the engine and the fascinating thing is i guarantee, kids realize, she s not moving until we shape up. don t make me come back there. okay, you also suggest, and you mention hunger to pack snacks early. pack snacks, obviously, the healthier snacks. the well-chilled bottles. here s the other thing that s wonderful about an ice chest. not only is it going to help with the snacks but it helps with close quarters. if you put it between two kids, that s your side, that s your side, don t move over the border. and a little bit slightly bigger chest makes a great little tray or coloring chest. you better make sure everything is evenly distributed. there you go. let s get to the games. you say keep it basic. and you don t have to have a whole bunch of things so you ll be picking thins up. this is when you start with the oldies but goodies like a spy and the license plate game where you can actually start doing geography. the other thing i think is the best investment for a car and you already have it are cookie sheets. they stack perfectly. you can put them underneath the front seat. they turn into wonderful benefits. first they re an instant tray so a kid can color or play cards. second of all they make an instant snacking tray. and third for littler critters they re magnetic so you can bring magnetic letters and they can play all on the top of it and it s instant, mess free. that is a great idea. and you can just wash them and put them back in the cupboard when you come home. no, keep them in the car forever. what else do you have? this one now it s quiet time. hopefully most parents say their best time with a kid is driving at night. so what if one child is asleep and you re still awake, but there s another one that s there? the best one i absolutely love is this new one, it s the v. reader from, the world s first e-book. so it s for little kids. absolutely powerful, because first of all, it s animated little cartridges that you can put in there like the little engine that could that they can follow along. or you know, the toy story one here. but it has a backlight. so, it automatically opens up, the kid did still keep reading it when it s night time, and comes with earplugs so that means sanity is saved for the mom. you plug in, and sanity for the other kids who may not want to hear the reader. and you re also encouraging reader. now we come to the older child who already has the mp3 player. make sure that he brings his ear plugs. but the most important thing is right before you start to get in the car go to the library. just pull out a couple of cds and audio books like, could be trilight or it could be to kill a mockingbird. have them downloaded and what you ll be doing is giving an extra two hours and encouraging reading. and what s this? this one is memories and make a happy memory. if you just give each child a disposable camera and tell them to take one shot of their special memory for the day, give them a little scrapbook they can actually be filling it out, what you ll have by the end of this trip is a memory log that will last a lifetime. you re encouraging reading skills along the way and it s just one more way to empower the child. these are great tips. i think if you follow them it should be a pretty happy vacation. the other thing is remember, it s your very indication, too. so keep the expectations low, and anything along the way is just going to be a little better, because if you keep them low, why not? let s hit the road. thank you so much. great ideas. and up next an inspiring story of wiomen on the rise. from capital one, we get double miles on every purchase. so we earned an l.a. getaway twice as fast. we get double miles every time we use our card. no matter what we re buying. and since double miles add up quick. romans! get em! 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it s very light and very low fat content. so it actually is easy to pair it with different items because it doesn t overpower. okay. let s get started simmering here. exactly. so if you don t mind, let s go ahead and add in sort of our tomatoes. that s are just regular chopped tomatoes? exactly. pour it right in. we julienned those up. and some other items here. some parsley, a little bit of oregano, a little bay leaf, we have some capers, golden raisins, and some olives. tell me why you decide on the raisins. what do the raisins today? traditionally, this is bell pepper based with tomatoes but i wanted to add a little sweetness to it. when you say veracruz style what does that mean? it s from the state of veracruz which is a state that has a lot of spanish, french influence. and of course we re using fish from the gulf of mexico. lovely. so you put it all together. you kind of stir it together. we re going to add basically all of that sauce there. pour it in. this is just a little bit of juice. today we re using some canned tomatoes so i just strain the juice off and use the tomatoes. there you are. give yourself a little bit of salt in there. okay. but don t overseason, because it s going to be a point where it s going to be reducing down slightly so you don t want to make the salt too much. so it s always acceptable to kind of season your food up afterwards. a little pepper. and then, of course, you set that right there. wonderful. and then of course we have our finished sauce. how long do you cook it down? roughly five to seven minutes. after that we have little fresh parsley in there. do you boss people around like this in your kitchen? oh, no, no, no. so what we re going to do is we ll just take some of our fish and place it inside. okay. quickly. and this is going to take about another two minutes to cook. in the meantime you re going to cook your rice, as well. the mexican style rice? how do we get that started? what we re going to do, can you just pour a little sauce over that fish. we have some rice with onions and garlic inside. we re going to pour a little rice in here. that s just regular long grain rice. mm-hmm. and we ll give it a stir to really coat the grains with the oil. then we have some other ingredients, we have some ground cumin, a little bit of chili powder, carrots, some peas and some serrano chiles which we use quite a bit in cancun. now we re going to pour everything in. just go ahead and douse it all in for our purposes today and you ll give that a stir. and add some chicken broth there? exactly. quickly just stir it up and then we re going to take and pour all of our chicken stock in. now depending on how much salt you add, will determine what type of flavor you re going to get. put a quick stir on that. this is ready to eat? oh, my gosh. and this is the final product over here? it is our final product. walk over. let me grab our pan very quickly here. and what we re going to do is, you got a lovely fish here. place it on top just like that. oh. can we try it? absolutely. a couple dishes we actually serve in our restaurant. chef roy, thank you so much. congratulations on the success. coming up actress selena gomez. all about love and relationships just after your local news and weather. 9:56 is your time now. 84 degrees. a touch of relief from all of the humidity we ve had. tom will have the forecast after the news. good morning, i m eun yang. in the news4 today a fairfax county man is facing terror charges this morning. the 20-year-old tried to travel to somalia to join a group with ties to al qaeda. chester issing expected to appear in a federal court in alexandria later today. turning to the forecast, i guess we could take every little break we can get. but it s not going to last very long. a little less humid, not a lot. afternoon highs going to make it into the mid 90s. now we are into the mid 80s. it will hit near 90 by noon. lots of sun. need sunblock. great beach and pool day. tomorrow more heat, humidity into the upper 90s. small chance of afternoon storm. more of the same on saturday. sunday more clouds around, a front coming through may trigger passing showers and thunderstorms, highs mid 90s. a break again monday as we get into next week from the high humidity and heat. jerry, how s the traffic? a live look at this hour along 395, this does not look like d.c. during the summer. that is for sure. backup at the pentagon to the work zone at inbound 14th street bridge. not good at all. over on 270 southbound, looks like we re doing well now, finally catching a break. now getting word of an accident interer loop of the beltway river road. be careful. get the news as soon as you wake up. news4 today begins every weekday morning at 4:30. tune in tomorrow for all of the day s news, weather and traffic. from nbc news, this is today with kathie lee gifford and hoda kotb. live from studio 1 a in rockefeller plaza. we re so glad you re with us on ursday, jaul 22nd. did you know that most people are angrier on thursday than any other day of the week? did you know that? it would make sense, because you re not at the weekend yet, and i can see where you get angry. i ve angered you and annoyed you ever since monday. yes. do i do that to you, hoda, really? yeah. here s the drill. i was angry yesterday. here s what happened. i went to the post office to get a listen to this. a registered letter, and you know those are always bad. it s irs or lawyer thing. you throw every notice away, jury duty, irs, junk mail. hold on. i go and wait 30 minutes. your letter is not here. we ll call you. i get home, phone rings, we found t. gi back to the post office, and they said we found your letter. here it is. it says really big irs. so i m thinking to myself, i shouldn t have picked it up. why did i ever bother going. so get it, and i m the person that opens the mail right when i get it. i open my mail before i get in the elevator. i was opening it, and it was my address and someone else s name. someone else is in trouble with the irs and not me. i was so happy to see that. do you know ho unloving that is. some woman is going to get the i know, but it wasn t me. i can t tell you how happy i was. i don t think i do anything wrong, but you never know when they get you and throw you in prison. you know twhawhat happens in prison? today is national hammock today. if you re angry today, you needham mock time. yesterday i partnered with an organization called hayneedle.com. i always struggle with na name. we re doing a joint venture with xhild help whichle battles child abuse, so yesterday i m on the top of some building with bent any frankel. i don t know why bethany was there. that s carter on my right. he s head of hay needle and that s eduardo from hgtv and that s sarah rodriguez from child help. where s bethany. she came later in her cute little shorts. have you ever been in a situation where you re going about it, and then something flies into your eye? something flew into my eye. in new york god knows what that could be. it s still there. it s still there. so i apologize about that. but everybody needs a little t s what you needed. you were on joy behar there i am on in a hammock. you were on joy behar s show yesterday talking about hammocks among other things. it s a bizarre position, hammocks and child abuse, but the point of it that hammocks are stress relievers, and we need to unplug and need to take off the turn off the blackberry. and relax. look at clouds. zipt to hear what you said to joy. what was that like? joy, that trouble-maker. you worked with regis and now you work with hoda. how is it different with you? i get to be now the older, cranky one, and i like it. he was. zeefs the older, crank one. now he s older and crankier, and i get to be old and cranky. you get away with a lot more. joy, you know what it s like. i m enjoying it. i didn t think i d stay more than a year. i fell in love with hoda. she really, really is a great woman. the two of you get along nicely. did i say that? apparently you did. cat s out of the bag. she was a lot of fun. this is a big story today. it looks like this is photo shopped or not true. there s a picture of a 40-ton whale look at that thing leaping out of the water in south africa, and somebody was someone was taking this picture also whale watching and apparently there was a couple on this coast and there s some question whether they cut their engine, but this whale was flopping around and they were watching it as it swam. it supposed is a baby whale. 40 tons and it s babe. a 40-ton baby. i hate to say it. it s ugly. most babies are cute, but that is not. look at the wreckage. they said the whale just maybe some of its barnacles and stuff is scraped up. bluber is the word. bluber on the side. i know the feeling. the wlael is fine and so are the people. have you ever been whale watchi watching? no. is it beautiful? it s wonder yus. not as great as a hammock. they re gentleman jestic and beautiful. they re friendly. apparently there s 1,000 feet away from them. who is going to measure? i don t know what a thousand feet is. they said this whale couldn t see that well and the didn t know it was whacking into the boat and was just swimming up and down. do you think they did something wrong, hoda? you re so cynical. you believe somebody was doing something they taunlted that whale. they were supposed to leave the engine on, right. whales can sense sbrigs, so if the engine is on they wouldn t have gone near. that s my question was the engine off. it s a sailboat. it still has an engine. seven miles off the coast. who knows. we ll never know. there are women who are doing all kinds of things to meet men. there is a woman from florida who rented a place in the hamptons for two weeks, plunked down a half million dollars zooi. 500 grand for two weeks. this woman apparently wants to meet someone. she s 40-something, a it s working. apparently men are lining up. she s very attractive. she s 40ish as they say, but other women are doing other things that are a little more adventuresome. there s a woman that s 35 years old, lisa lenihan. she s planned her wedding. itth date is february 13th. she doesn t have a groom yet. she s planning on getting a groom to get married on that day because it s her grandparents we had date. she has the date, and she s proactive. you put it out there, and then it happens like the secret. i want to meet him. probably not. is she with us? i think she is. lisa. hi. hi, how is it going? it s going well. i have got is she naked? are you naked? no wonder you re busy. lisa, a blog you re doing. you re trying to get people to underwrite basically the different things you need for your wedding. yes, actually the dallas bridal shows have put together vendors to sponsor the entire thing. all i have to worry about is finding a groom. anybody looking good. how is this philosophy. you have date and no guy. what are people saying to you about that? people have been really supportive, and it s like the secret. it s an idea i had five months ago in new york city, and i thought if i plan my wedding a year out then toi have to get married. it s a crazy idea and it s fun. it s a social experiment. it was raa result of turning 35? yeah. one out of every two marriages ends in divorce, so basically, you know, even if you find the guy the depressing debbie downer attitu attitude. i wonder if she thought it through. i understand. i m innocent my 20s anymore, file like my odds are higher at having a successful marriage. i ve never been married and seen a lot of good and bad marriages so i feel i have good experience and knowledge. i m hoping i ll be one of the positive stories. good for you. you re adorable. let us know what happens. we ll call you on the 14th of february. any eligible bachelors can e-mail me. bye, honey. nau so much. bye-bye, sweetheart. that s interesting. would you do that? never. what happens on february 14th when you don t have anybody? you have to go out there somewhere and find somebody. totally desperate, though? you get that every now and then. that sinks in. okay. when she said i m 35 and getting old, i was like, god, i hate her. okay or not okay. is it okay to dress up like your kids. you say i wish i could dress like my daughter, but the truth is i d look ridiculous and she d refer to be season with me. hoda says like father like son doesn t mean matching sailors suits. zits guys and girls. what little girl wants to see mommy in a teen tube top. if mommy is no angelina jolie? i thought things through. all right. over to sarah. hi. hi. if you put out there, hopefully it s refundable. that s a lot of cost. in regard to your eyes, symptom fans have suggestions have somebody blow in it, hoda. linda says cry. i should you should laugh. laughing makes your eyes tear. laura our hairdresser said to peel on ons. i m going to the eye doctor instead. coming next teen queen tina gomez and joey king. look at the two. the little on the right is nothing but trouble. i m warning you right now. that s right after this. after y50erz of sitting on book shelves everywhere ramona beezus quimby are coming to life. getting to play the famous sisters are teen sensations tina gomez who is the perfect straight a older sister and beezus and joey king who the mischievous and imagine active ramona. hello you. are you just like your character in real life. i met you for 15 seconds and you seem a lot like the character? not just like my character. i m also like beezus? some ways as well. well, i ve been having this thing seeing water wherever i go. i was like, okay, mooufg along really carefully. i was water on the table and on someone. i m very accident-prone like ramona. ramona means well, doesn t she? exactly. i also have a big personality like her. do you have a big personality. just a little. your character isn t exactly perfect. you re going through things in the movie as well, and you get a little huffy with her on occasion. i think it definitely covers like the normal sister relationship of fighting and then getting on your nerves. and yet the love. but then you love them. so you met on the movie, right? yes. so you guys are pals in real life. this isn t just a movie. tell us about your relationship. we instantly clicked. sxaktly. we spent every second of every day together. we went shopping, gave each other facials. i heard you even prayed together every morning before you filmed. we prayed every day. we went to starbucks. i got her first frappuccino. oh, come on. her mom really loved me after that day. no. it was calf teen, but they didn t have anything else. i m getting used to the caffeinated stuff. it s going to stunt your growth. i like being short anyway. she gets it as a treat every now and then. did you have to dye your hair? you re not a natural red head, right? i m like hoda s color. that s not natural either. that s my actual mine is a little lighter, but that s my actual color. dirty blonde. i like this on you. isn t it great? you believe you re sisters watching you. you have great people playing your parents. she has two old sters and a half-sister danielle in texas. celiselena is like my 4 1/2 sis you have a lot going on, starting with what you re wearing, this little cute outfit. this is my clothing line called dream out loud sold at kmart and launches august 1st. that s exciting. it s really comfortable and casual and very the price is completely appropriate for all of my fans. adorable for kids. i love that. you have another movie that she wrapped in monte carlo, budapest and paris. it was so much fun. that s a movie called mon tee carlo next spring. what s happening with wizards is it? is that sticking around? yes, we re doing season four. you have a big future ahead of you, missy. i hope so. i m actually filming a movie this fall. see. i m not allowed to say what it is, though. a kid like you can t be trusted. you wore the silly bands. it is such a sweet move spree. happy birthday to selena today, and your birthday is coming up next week. we wanted to give you a little birthday surprise. oh. thank you. go see ramona and beezus. it opens tomorrow. our panel is ready to spill right after this. happy birthday, kids.   they are here, and they are ready to spill. it s time for our guys tell all panel. rick younger is here. rick is married with a son. next up is a very funny chuck knight seen every work on word s dumbest. he s been married for 12 years and she s still with him. we have andz drew trees and andrew is married with a toddler. our single man in the house is master matchmaker and host of tough love. mr. steve warren. welcome to the boys table. he s the only single guy in the group. i m here with elizabeth with florida and she has a question about women taking control. why is it that men have an issue with women who take control? we all know they get lost and need guidance, so what s the issue? there you go. guys do have an issue with that. don t you call that marriage. the whole thing with the control is the gloating about taking the control. it s kind of like, you know, we have roles we have to play. make us think that we re in control. kind of let us think it s our idea. so just a subtle suggestion. don t brag if you re right. i don t think guys mind if a woman takes charge and it makes their lives easier and they doentd have to sweat it out. that s the single guy. yaeshgs sounds like a good idea, until it actually happens, you know. there s contributing control as a partnership, and there s control i think this young lady is talking about. kind of like the way a prison tells you what to eat, what to wear. are men looking for their mother in a way? that s right. i think from my own personal experience the only two words you need to know for a happy marriage are yes, dear. i think we stumbled upon our mother. it s like my wife and my mother get together, and they start talking. it s like the same stuff is coming out. my mother says stuff my wife has already said. she s like, see, i told you. there s a difference between taking control, and that s taking initiative, and being controlling. i don t think men plik women that are controlling, but i think they admire a woman that s willing to make an initiative. that s a good distinction. andrew should have made it. my husband loves to telling my age to people. i ve informed him on plenty of occasions a woman doesn t tell her age, however he doesn t care i don t like him doing it and keeps doing it. i do the same thing. i mean, i know women like my woman looks phenomenal for my age. my mom is 51 years old. she s young. no wonder. i think one of the biggerish use is she doesn t like it and he keeping doing it. here s what it comes down to. in any marriage where one partner is constantly doing something that you have already established you do not like, that is a passive/aggressive attempt at saying, i don t like you. that s what we re saying. another thing andrew should have said. we read his book, decoding love. obviously, that guy is not happy. there s something wrong in the marriage, and he s doing it to vent his frustration. maybe he s proud of her because she looks gorgeous. but she told him 20 times. maybe it s a problem with him and his age. he wants everybody to know look, she s in the same boat with me, and we re the same age. she doesn t like it. we ll take a commercial break and we ll come back and have more questions from across the street and on skype and everywhere. 0f0f0f0f0f[l0f[l0f0f0f0f0f0f0f they call him a homegrown terror swift he appeared in court. latest on a locman accused of ug a baby for the cover or jihad. good morning, i m barbara harrison. new rules designed to make your next cruise safer. why high-tech gadgets could mean big problems for your eyesight. joan imagine if it were this easy to spot the good guys. you know, the guys who always do a super job. well, it is. just go to the verizon® yellow pages. and look for a business with the superguarantee® shield. you ll get the job done right, or we ll step in and help to make it right. so, protect yourself with the superguarantee® from supermedia. on its way the new verizon® yellow pages with larger, easier to read print. we re back with more of today and our guys tell all panel. hello, everybody. here we go. we re back and we have a question from katie. let s listen. hi. i m katie, and i m from connecticut and my question for the men s panel is, why when you have a good thing going with a male friend do they always ruin it by wanting more? because it was only a good thing for you. we don t want to be just your friend. it s like this is the default. he s become your friends because you won t let him be more. guys kantd be friends with girls. there are things like this when men are twice as lucky to think it s a good idea to have a relationship with a female friends. it s better to have sex or relationships with female friends. i think he is such good friends because he wants more, and usually if a guy isn t interested in more than just a friendship, you ll see his true colors and maybe he s not as admirabl admirable. i m with her. why would i ruin something by wanting more from it, you know? i ve been working for free all these years. why would i want a pay economic, ridiculous. ask for money. i ve been fixing your toilets and fixing stuff around and i m going to ask you for money. let s get drinks and meet friends and make some nice friends. guys become your friend because well, hey, at least i can be your friend. everything is sexually motivated. i conducted my own poll on twitter. bit you did. we ve met your pole. it s lovely. if you have feelings for someone else is it possible to just be friends, and nine out of ten women said it is and five out of ten men said it isn t. so i think most of the men are interested in more anyway. studies show that men are remarkable quick to read sexual content. we don t mean anything by it. and they say yeah, we re halfway home. this is sarah across the street. i m here with colleen from florida. she has a question about the type of woman men are looking for. could a man of any age be attracted to a woman that wore her hair like this 24/7? let me tell you something, young lady. i don t know how old you are, but if i wasn t married i m toss you around for a little bit. you know what? she has a princess lea thing going on. what i liked about her is she has a positive attitude. she s the kind of woman you look up and you re like, man. she d be fun. you start out as friends, but as a guy we want more. are there men of any age that would be attracted to her, and i would say that probably over the age of 65. that would probably be a safe bet. that s not nice. she doesn t want to hear that. between that lady and your mother, you re not on a roll. i don t think men in their 50s or 40s are i love rita moreno to this day. sexy has no age, and i m not saying that the majority of her fan base is going to be 21 years old, but there s going to be somebody whos like hey, how you doing? men generally for women they re younger and if their older, so in 20s men like women 2 to 3 years younger and by 60s and 70s it s 12 years younger. we have another question on tape. let s listen to it. hello. my name is nicole and i m from germany. when i m out socially, should guys always approach the girl first. good question. what do you think? maybe in germany. i don t think anything is always. i think that if it s important to you that you get a chance to meet someone and you re a woman and it s not happening, maybe you put yourself in the line of fire or give him an opportunity. because, you know, sometimes we re intimidated. how? you don t have to approach a man. all you have to do is be available, and he will take the cue. eye contact, smile, you know. a second look. second look. i don t read. you read my book. honestly that s what happens. if you smile at a man and give him a second look, then he knows that something is up. you have to do that, because studies have shown almost all men won t approach until they get nonverbal signals from the woman. i think that s ridiculous. i think if a guy is entitled to go up to a woman and ask her out, i think a women is equally entitled to. does it turn you off? no. i like strong, confident women. i don t see anything wrong with a woman saying i noticed you from across the room. are you single? why do i cringe? studies show that women who approach verbally does turn off a lot of men. thank you. but i ll give you this. i don t have statistics to prove it. most guys like women that like him. if you say something, hey, she likes me the reason why the nonverbal cues are important is when a woman approaches you verbally it gives an air of i m being set p up. what s going on? something is going on here. where are the police? something is going on here. something s wrong. these guys are all married. i have to speak on the behalf of single men out there that don t mind a confident woman and don t mind a woman taking control. i haven t been married all my life, and i m here to tell you, i waited a while to get married. i m telling you it s like there s an appreciation for a woman who will let you know she s interested, but there is like chuck said, there s a little bit of what s going on? a guy with a rock slab full of ice going, let s go, sweetie. that s what we need to do, unfortunately. thanks to everybody over at the nbc digital cafe. how to make sure your house is safe and secure when you head away for a week. that s right after this.  @@ if you re planning on setting out for vacation. we have advice on how to protect your on possessions and skwur your house before you head out. you were with us before, and you were so good. thank you. we wanted you back. you make it easy. you re great. a lot of people are on social networking sites and they say, sometimes, hey, going away and excited to go. going to be in hawaii for two weeks. i know of two families wluz houses were completely cleaned out because one guy twittered before he left. we re going to be out of town from this time to this time. the bottom line is summer is the season for home burglaries. i m sure. it s the one time of year that everybody in america takes some length of time and leaves their house completely vacant. so the thing you have to remember is it s not just about it s people in your neighborhood. it s acquaintances. you don t know who is out there. so don t twitter before. save the twittering for after. facebook, pictures the whole thing. don t advertise on craig aeslis you re looking for a house sitter. it creeps me out, craigslist. you say you have to protect the perimeter of your yard sxhous. all about building the safety of the perimeter. number one thing is these motion sensor lights are grease. there are ones that are solar powered. easy to put up. light up the perimeter of yur house so burglars don t feel comfortable coming in and hanging out and scoping it out. people are concerned about the electric bills. it s pennies. that s why get the solar one, then. right. all right, safety chick. the other thing is if that s your real name. that s what they tell me. the anyw anyway along the side of your houseplant thorny bushes so they feel uncomfortable there. and we re getting into the barrier. you should have an alarm system, period. monitored alarm systems are your best line of first defense. that s the best. is there a way through all of that if they want to get into your house? you know, yes, but the thing is at least you re if they get in, somebody is notified and the police are on the way. and there s an alarm sounding. criminals do really look for the easier targets, so the more you have it doesn t center to look like a fortress. landscaping safety. like that. exactly. this is a good lock. you want to make sure you have a good, solid dead bolt. this is a good first line. what is this? i can t say a brand name. we could. you want to make sure it s a good, solid dead bolt. i have to tell you i love this wireless camera, okay? look, it s a you see at larm clock. it s a working alarm clock that s videotaping inside your house. you have cameras outside your house. ilts a piece of software you put into your hard computer at home. the camera is in this thing? it s one of the dots in the middle. here s the thing about it. so it s easy to install in your home computer. it streams to your computer, your laptop, your cell phone. you have these all over your house. in rooms that matter, but the thing is on vacation it s a motion sensor and it will record 30 to 45 seconds so you can see people. people have found all kinds of things that way. exactly. this one just is peace of mind. be careful what you wish for. you may see it. that s the perimeter and the inside. there s also like little simple tricks you can do that make someone who is casing your house think that someone is home, because that s the idea. you don t want it to look like a locked down fortress, you want it lived-in. if you have a great neighbor that can come over the neighborhood watch things somebody that can come and actually move your car or take in the your mail. people leave their newspapers just piled up. exactly. this is the obvious one. we heard about the timers, but those work. put them on different rooms and make them go on and off at different times. what is this? this thing is great. if you can leave your dog at home, because dogs are great deterrents. if you leave the dog at home and have the neighborhood boy feed the dog, it s great. this is a dog barking alarm. are you ready? [ dog barking ] he doesn t sound too menacing. there are ones that are german shepherds. it has a motion sensor and as you get closer to the door it gets louder. it s all about having a deterrent to keep your burglar way. kathleen, thank you, honey. she s a safety chick. we love her. coming up next, booze and baking. time for today s kitchen. this time we re getting sauced and not saucy from beer cake to shand anyway, the recipe for spirited sweets is the perfect book for those that like to break open a bottle. we ll eat to that. lucy baker is the author of the book as well as a food writer. baker is her real name. lucy baker. how are you? what are we tooking up? a plum beer cake and also some blondies with chardonnay. what made you decide to put booze des moines your recipes. a few years ago i had a party and a friend bought ouzo. after the party i used it to bake a cake, and it was so delicious and it opened up this whole new world. whole new world. let s make this plum thing. in here we have a mixture of butter, sugar and an egg. we re going to turn it on low. we ll add in three tablespoons of molasses. now, in this bowl we have a mixture of flour and just a little bit of baking soda and salt and will add two teaspoons of cinnamon and two sea teaspoons of ginger. give it a quick whip just to incorporate all the ingredients. then what you want to do is add alternately a little bit of the flour. is this the beer? that is the beer. that is a dark german beer. just put in half. half. okay. there you go. if you can t find that is that like a guinness. if you can t that particular kind of beer by all means then pour in the rest of the boar? does it taste like beer whether you re done? it does. dark beer lager, dark stout have sort of like a chocolately coffee flavor to them. it pairs really well the cinnamon and ginger in the cake. we re going to let that mix up, and i have the batter already here. you want to arrange your plums in the batter. it s a really homey dessert, so you can have fun tw. it doesn t have to look perfect. can you turn that off? how do you do it? i have one eye. i m sorry. here is the finished dessert, you can taste. hoda is going to try it. can kids eat this stuff because of the alcohol in it? what do you think? i think it would be feign. most of the alcohol burns off in the oven but it leaves the flavors behind. it adds this sevwarm decadence. it s good. you can taste the beer in it. the it s delicious. so over here we make blondies with chardonnay, and i love the oak bar at the plaza hotel and i wanted to make a play on words and turn it into a dessert. in this bowl we have a mission t mixture of light brown sugar and an egg. this is a variation on a theme. we understand what you re doing. she loves her blender. first we add in the dry ingredients. kathie lee pour in dump in all in there. that does not like like much. it s just a quarter cup. and you want to make sure to use a chardonnay that s been aged in oak barrels. most of the time it will say on the bolgtttle. to this mixture we add half a cup of chopped he toasted cashews and butterscotch chips. imt not eating this. i actually can t. you want me to do this? go ahead, hoda. this is you would love this one. her book is available because look at this velvet cook. thank you boozy baker. we ll be back with more of today on nbc. @ú@ tomorrow carol channing will be here, and we ll see what it s like to lay on a $33,000 mattress. i can t wait. just a reminder for the next guys tell all submit your questions on our website and we may ask yours. we have a great day coming up. it s thirst day. don t be angry today. go lay down in a hammock, okay, and count your