the historic headline from the white house this week, the president of the united states endorses same-sex marriage. but the story behind the headlines may be just as dramatic and it culminated with vice president joe biden apologizing to president obama for forcing his hand on this hot button issue, a sore subject among some white house insiders. our chief whereas correspondent jessica yellen has been working the story for us. tell our viewers what you are hearing right now. >> i understand the vice president apologized to the president for putting him in a tough position on this situation and the president gave an understanding reply saying he knows that the vice president was speaking from the heart. the vice president's office also issued a statement saying it was the president who has been the leader on this issue since day one and the vice president never intended to distract from that. president obama says he was planning to say this sometime before the democratic convention. >> for me personally it is important for me to go ahead and affirm that i think same-sex couples should be able to get married. >> but vice president biden forced up the timing with his unscripted remarks on "meet the press" or as the president put it -- >> he probably got out a little bit over his skis but out of generosity of spirit. would i have preferred to have done this in my own way, in my own terms without i think there being a lot of notice to everybody? sure. but all's well that ends well. >> some of the president's aides are not as for giving. some say they're frustrated, annoyed the vice president got out ahead of the president's policy and possible plans for a roll-out. this is hardly the first time biden's gone off script. remember this? >> this is a big [ bleep ] deal. >> and when the administration was trying to advise the public about the swine flu. >> when one person sneezes, it goes everywhere. >> some say the vice president had previously counselled the president against speaking out in favor of same-sex marriage because of potential political risks but officials say the president has a close personal relationship with biden which will trump his advisers' frustration. they add sharing the president with biden comes with risks and rewards, as the president has acknowledged. >> he's warms, cuddly, enthusiastic. you just have to keep him on a tight leash. every once in a while he goes off in the wrong direction and gets himself in trouble. but enough about joe biden. >> and they appeared together this morning at a white house event. if you need further prove the vice president is not in the dog house so to speak, biden is going to ohio on a campaign swing. that's a critical state for the president. >> they do have a very close relationship. they work closely, even though occasionally joe biden seems to get ahead of the president. >> he's and he's great person to reach out to middle class voters, blue collar voters, catholic voters, et cetera. >> meanwhile, mitt romney found himself bombarded with questions about same-sex marriage in the wake of the president's announcement. jim acosta is here in the situation room as well. what is the republican candidate saying specifically? >> after a week dominated by the president's reversal on same-sex marriage, mitt romney is studiously staying away from the issue. it could be because the ish you is not a potent political winner for republicans as it once was. mitt romney seemed reluctant to pounce on the issue. >> this is a very tender and sensitive topic, as are many social issues. >> in an interview with a denver tv station, romney got testy with a reporter who pressed him on same-sex marriage, among other issues. >> aren't there issues of significance you'd like to talk, about the economy, the growth of jobs. >> that may be because it's not 2004 anymore. many pundits say john kerrey lost the presidency in the state of ohio. ohio put its amendment on the ballot after the massachusetts supreme court ruled in favor of same-sex marriage, ironically when romney was governor. but attitudes have changed. back then 55% of americans said same-sex marriage should not be legal the public is more split today. while president obama's comments may cost him support among independents. >> he is going to lose i think a few reagan democrats in ohio, michigan, north carolina. working class white males. >> consider how quickly john ba ba ba boehner focused the issue back to the question. 14 seconds. >> both campaigns appear ready to move on. the obama campaign has put out a rash of new ads that focus on the economy. meanwhile the romney campaign is talking up mrs. romney, who got an op-ed out in the "usa today." it was on the virtues of motherhood, just in time for mother's day. >> important stuff. she's going to be a huge asset over the next six months for the republican candidate. all this bullying stuff he supposedly did 50 years ago while he was in high school, how is mitt romney handling this? >> right now they're not saying a whole lot about it. he's done some interviews where he says he doesn't recall this incident. i talked to one of the former classmates identified in the "washington post" article, had a long conversation with fill ib maxwell. he tells me he is still haunted by this incident. he wishes he had stopped the interdent from happening. heap said he did not do that. when he describes to me can only be scribed as a bullying incident. he called it an assault and said the fact that mitt romney does not recall this means he's not owning up to something. he said he's disappointed from that. the romney campaign put out statements from other former classmates who say mitt romney was not that kind of person. high might have clound around but he was not that kind of person. >> democratic strategist and cnn contributor james carville doesn't like what he's seeing right now in this overall campaign. i spoke about the state of the race with him and he sending a very blunt warning to his own democratic party and to the white house. james carville is joining us now from our new york bureau. james, a powerful piece you wrote on cnn.com. wtfu, translated -- wake the you know what up. there is an earthquake. what are you spoking, what are you thinking or just what in the hell are you thinking? >> what are you thinking? what's going on here? >> i go around the country and talk to democratic supporters and office holders and there's this sense we're going to win the next election. you look at what's happening to incumbents around the world and my question to these people, what are you thinking? i hope we will. i think we have a very good chance to win the next election but we're going to have to run a picture perfect campaign, do everything right, get the opposition on the defensive, raise a bucket load of money. i don't see democrats out there as nervous as they should be about this. >> you include the dnc leadership, the white house, who is asleep right now? >> it wasn't really directed at the white house. i think that we got to prepare for one of the hardest campaigns we're ever going to be involved in here and it just across the board to the whole party. we got to buckle up here. what incumbents are standing offish here. we have to go here early and often. some of our so-called guys have to be raising money, we need a better coordinated attack out there. there's a lot of things we need to be doing here and gearing up here, i don't get the sense people feel it time to get out now and it is. >> why is it that karl rove's pro-republican super pac is raising tens of millions of dollars and the pro democratic super pac is having a tough time raising any at all. >> mr. rofs pollution commission is supporting things. they have an enormous financial stake in this. it's not just the democratic super pac. it's all across the board. there's this sense of sort of comfort we're going to have a good year in 2012. we may and i hope we do. i'm not going to suggest that can't happen. but right now, i don't see we're tied into polls. i look at romney and i don't think he's the worst ever and i think people assume romney can't get any better and i think that's a dangerous assumption to me. >> you wrote an article back in september last year. what should the white house do now? one word came to mind -- panic. you also suggested they should start firing somebody. did they heed your advice? >> they did seem to fight harder, they indicted somebody in the financial services thing. if it's me, i'm a different personality. i'd be on fire right now, i'd be screaming at people, i'd be trying to motivate. i wouldn't be as comfortable. and i think that they got to send a signal that they've gotten back the jobs that bush lost but that's where we are. people are not satisfied in the sense that there's a lot more to do. i would probably try to convey that. but, you know, it's -- that's the way that they are sort of doing it and they've been pretty successful so far. sure hope they're successful in november. but i think that people's lives are really sort of hurting out here. i'm ready to get started here. >> mincing no words, james carvel, thank you very much. >> escalating violence in syria. and a secret agent with strong western ties. how a plot to bring down a u.s. bound airplane was stopped. >> and keeping lines open. you can only see the dispute here in "the situation room." sorry. sore knee. blast of cold feels nice. why don't you use bengay zero degrees? 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